I was wondering, most provider websites advise against discussing sexual acts, or using explicit language on the phone or email, but then want you to fill out a form and tell them what you're interested in, or into. How do you get around it?
Thanx in advance
The form is about meeting logistics, not the meeting itself. For instance, incall or outcall, one hour or two hours, etc.
It's also, of course, where you introduce yourself to the
provider.
For meeting specifics, you look to TER reviews.
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First I never fill out an info page ... just e mail her instead and tell her that you are very interested in her and when you will be visting. Also tell her about yourself and give her as much info about yourself that YOU feel comfortable in giving. Wait for her reply...
Then tell her that you have looked over her reviews and would really like to get together but that in looking at her reviews you still have a few questions that you would like answered. By this time she will have built up some amount of a comfort level with you...she might even ask you to call her.....
If she says ask away then ask your questions, be very polite about it. An exemple ... I am very oral and I was wondering if you DFK and allow DATY these are two items which are very enjoyable to me and in reading your reviews I could not get a good feel about you on these topics .. Do you allow these? ... yadda yadda yadda
Just remember always be polite, don't blurt out anything without asking first ... and don't get into graphics ... hoby safe hobby well hobby all you can be......my .02
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brief on the phone or emails and they want it that way. (and keep it that way.)
I've completely counted on the reviews on TER and I've only been let down once...and that was a relatively minor let down.
When I've visited a woman on a second date...(and if she remembers me)...then a polite question has worked quite well...("should we try this??" "Hell yes!")
If a gentleman should write to me, even hinting around at my services, I will write him back and direct him to my TER profile/reviews. I will also state in my email that for entrapment reasons, I will not openly discuss anything sexually graphic, which may be used against me, in the court of law. Then he gets the hint, goes through my TER profile/reviews and makes an appt. To even hint around in the first contact (email/phone) is a big no-no to me. If he is not catching on, then I will direct him to someone else, who is less stringent on her screening process, for I would never met him then.
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the fella? (I'm guessing that usually a second visit doesn't need much pre-session discussion...but I'm curious.
Maybe a guy wants to ask about a detail that he didn't experience the first time and it isn't in the reviews.)
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Hi! If we had met before, sure ask away what is on your mind 
I am comfortable by then, for I would have met you already