I need some help from the board. I don't participate in the hobby that often. The last time I participated was June 05. The times I did meet with a provider I just let her take control. I never told them what I wanted, I just accepted what ever they did. Well, I now have a chance to meet with a provider that I have been wanting to met for months. We have emailed back and forth to each other for a while. She is now going to spend two days in my area and I already have my appointment set up. Now how do I tell her what I want? How do you communicate such things to someone you have never met? I know it is a business to the provider and that they hear request from men all the time. But, how do I say to her "hey this is what I want and I want you to do it this way" when we have no working relationship? I can see men making special request after the provider gets to know them. I may be making this harder then it should be. All I really want from a provider is a lot of french, both giving and receiving, a great massage with lots of body to body contac and some kissing. I don't really care about F/S. I want the best french she has ever preformed and plenty of physical contac. Do I just say it to her after the business is taken care of? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks