Hey im kinda new to this whole type of thing so are there providers that would be able to kinda show me the ropes.  The last thing i want to do is get a provider and be too nervous and anxious making the whole situation feel uncomfortable for me or them.

Do some searches for the type of woman you want and then find someone who has good reviews.

Read all there going back a few months and hit up the board with any questions you may have at that point.

Lots to learn and tons of info other there and the mod is a good guy.

Good luck man.

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I took the general advice to sign up with VIP.  Three weeks later...first encounter.  Yes, it can be stressful, but if you pick the right lady, the nervousness should melt away shortly after the door has closed.  

As for picking the right lady, do your homework.   You know what to do...

Go the TER General Boards, then click on FAQ for Newbies and take you time and read through as much of the section as you can, then move over to this Board. Can't learn all this in 5 minutes.