as has been pointed out by my beloved contingent of mongrels, the path to finding quality matches in this hobby has been forever altered.  this thread is not being composed to dwell in the past but to share a method that i have become more and more comfortable with, and it's called...drum roll please...onlyfans....ok, this is not a revelation and i'm being cheekily dramatic but, it has turned into an effective tool in my decision making kit...here are a few examples...there is a redhead i have lusted after for some time(sorry about withholding her name) and as i was about to pull the trigger, she expanded her OF presence to include a 2nd, more explicit page...i paid the ten bucks to get a preview, and what i saw completely turned me off...her website photos did not show the poundage she added over the past 5 years, i found her pussy to be a turnoff and worst of all, she had some bj videos (with dildos and a few actual real cocks) that were profoundly without sex appeal...so i saved myself some cash on that one...another one that turned me off was a lower eastside waif that i was contemplating reaching out to...her tryst page piqued my interest and as i was about to make contact, i got a free preview invite on her OF page...she comes off as a heroin addicted street walker(i have no idea if she is on anything....just painting a photo) and turned my dick flaccid...oh well...but there was one who had only selfie amateur photos up that i had to meet...she was delightful and went under the radar soon after our first encounter...i saw her about 5 times in total, loved this girl and then she moved...she asked me not to review her and her postings and photos have been miraculously scrubbed...

so if you take anything from my ramblings, as the industry changes, we need to adapt