Denton Cooley once said, when asked about surgeons, "when you go to the barber, you expect to get your hair cut".
I really would like to know.. do you like a call girl, and yes I did say CALL GIRL, to be the one in charge in the room behind the door and for you to be submissive or the other way around.
also.. n your private life, do you feel that you are a totally different person?
Please think about this answer you are going to give and please be honest, even if you use an alias.
The best sessions are when we're both assertive and into it. When a provider wants me to just sit back and follow her instructions, I feel like I'm going through a routine she follows with every appointment. That's bland and uninteresting.
I prefer the provider to take the lead but at the same time be responsive to what I like and don't like. THis is particularly true if she is someone I am seeing for the first time. What drives me crazy is if she doesn't take the lead after 20 minutes or so and then I have to make a move or even say that maybe something should happen now.
The first time, I like to have the woman take the lead. She has to be comfortable with me. It is kind of like a dance. We both know the steps. We both may have a couple of "fancy moves." It is a function of how they are all put together. She can lead, I will follow, as long as we are moving to the same music.
The second time, after I have a familiarity around her body, I am generally more accertive. It is like playing a musical instrument for the first time. I like to try different things to see what kind of sounds she can produce.
The third time, if there is a third time is a real improvisation. Think of different rhythms and angular approaches. It is about two people creating on a complex musical scale.
The first two gentlemen whom responded pretty much said it all as far as I'm concerned. The only thing I might add is to reinforce the dislike of any prefabricated,mechanical session.
I'm a "go with the flow" kind of guy and enjoy both the mental and physical foreplay but that's not to say that I don't appreciate an experienced "call girl" taking me on her own special erotic "tour".
Cheers!
During a first time visit, I like my provider to set the pace. I think it helps her become more comfortable with me and sets the stage for good communication and ultimately a better experience. I like being pampered. If she asks me what I like, I am happy to lead the way because I have done my homework here and know pretty much what to expect...
MysteryinfamousGFE-
As long as the lady is hot it does not matter.
Happy Hunting!
JD
So why do women always think the man should be the one to be the first to make the moves?
I am very submissive with a CALL GIRL. Yet in my personal life I am the complete opposite.
I like someone assertive, but I also like someone who will make adjustments based on verbal statements and body language.
Denton Cooley once said, when asked about surgeons, "when you go to the barber, you expect to get your hair cut".