Good evening...traveling to NYC this weekend, staying at Ritz on 59th.  Looking for a mid 30's to mid 40's provider that will discreetly work with me to suprise my wife with a 3some....prefer blondes but not a deal breaker at all.  Love to have suggestions.  Thanks

They don't like surprises and need to know the gal is into it and won't freak or back out last second.

Also, not good form to list actual hotel info on public board. Handle that stuff bc i.e. out of view.

Many people are very paranoid in this line of work and with good reason.

Good luck.

Significant other so no bad surprises happen. Sometimes girlfriends or wives fantasize about being with another girl and they talk about but it won't necessarily meant that they want to do or are ready to do it (big difference).

I would be delighted to spend some time with you and your significant other. However the guys are right and this is not a surprise you want to give to a woman! Even if you guys have discussed it and she seems like she is a little bit open to it, a surprise is a very bad idea. You might like to be surprised like that, and most men might like to be surprised like that, but not women.

If it's not done carefully she might see it as and your excuse to see someone you like more than her-whether that's true or not.

One thing I always recommend is that you find a provider who does not bring out her insecurities. Make sure the provider is older than she is, has uglier boobs, and is fatter. Some guys might disagree but I think this is important.  You're lucky enough that she's willing to do a double session with you. Find someone who is obviously not as attractive as she is and then spend at least 75% of the time in that session with your significant other,  encouraging her, and interacting with her.

The first time she has a bad time will probably be the last time you guys do it.

Like the others have mentioned, you don't want to surprise your wife with this.  
Instead, get her involved right away.  Let her choose her preferred provider.  

You should talk about your expectations and any restrictions you may have upfront, and then share that with your chosen provider.  

I love working with couples, and have had only good experiences.  I believe this has a lot to do with respecting the couple's relationship and making sure to stay within the woman's comfort zone.  

Done correctly, this can be a fabulous experience for both of you.  Good luck!

well im not a blond but im alot of fun