The better buildings in NYC are quite strict about whom they let in as tenants. Once you get into a great place, you want to be quite careful. So admire the women who don't do incall.
Also, other residents/ the doormen are quite curious and nosy. And re discretion, you're just as apt to run into someone you know walking up to her bldg as you are going into the Plaza or some hotel -- less likely there, in fact. Hotel bars/ meeting rooms on upper floors are quite common/legit places for biz mtgs. Would rather be caught there than entering some random apt building and seeing someone I know, and they all probably know who the resident escort is.
Better to just get a room, or if you must, Paypal her some $ to get the room and stop trying to save a buck. Gotta be private.
I don't know what you hope to accomplish by this post, since so many excellent independents and agencies have incall service. They are discrete, in discrete locations. The economics are clearly such that it is far, far cheaper to operate out of an apartment, shared by many hobbyists and providers, than to pay the minimum of $250 for a decent hotel room in NY; hence, the provider retains more of what you pay.
I don't know why you posted this but NO ONE SHOULD POST ANY ADDRESSES ON THIS WEBSITE OR IN REVIEWS.
Captyve I'm inclined to agree with you.
In my experience both in dealing with providers and providing when a woman is looking for an incall they generally take all this into consideration. Granted there are always a few in a bunch that is irresponsible but you can't make things so cut and dry.
Plus there are many ways women do incall. They do it out of their apt, or they get a hotel room and do it. Incall simply means that we host as opposed to you, meaning we pay for the hotel room or supply the apt.
I do think that it's a good idea to have a seperate apt used for incall rather than your home, but if you can keep things quiet and see a limited number of regular clients then you shouldn't have a problem.
The good thing about incall is it's more ecconomical for the hobbiest and there is a specific place for you to meet us at rather than having to do the anonymous hotel route which works also but is not the preferred method of most IMO.
Just my 2 cents
suspicion with my neighbors. I can deal with someone else's neighbors.
The trick pads, the agency-rented rooms, the incall girls who see a couple guys a day from home or a shared apt.... you walk up to the building looking a bit befuddled -- hmm, where is the button, the elevator, lost/ nervous/ excited look, everyone knows why you are there! They all know who the resident hooker in every building is.....
And, if it's in a nice area, and hoping for your sake it is, then you could easily meet someone you know....
It happened last week -- ran into a former colleague/ex-partner who lived in the building next door. Caught me as I was approaching the bldg, exchanged awkward words, gave me a knowing smirk and regret that day.... If it were at a hotel when we met, then I was just at a conference/meeting.
Go to an incall at your own risk -- but if you're caught, it's mighty embarrassing and wouldn't be surprised if neighbors upset with the frequent comings and goings of strange men every few hours doesn't have them calling the police. I'm done with it.
Where have you been in NY that what you describe happens frequently? I've visited providers in large apartment buildings--Celine, Fiorella, Christine/Ruby--and in small walk-ups--Julies, Fratella, VintagePink--and never once have I gotten a "knowing smirk" from a neighbor. The doorman knows everyone's secrets in NY and the ones that are in provider apartments get royally tipped to be discrete and oblivious and they are.
This post is so bizarre, I am sure it is a plant, but from who and why? NY Hotel and Convention Bureau to raise hotel occupancy rates? Real Estate Developers Association to drive out renters to convert rentals to condo? Who and why?
I am not late, where am I going? LOL. I still feel bad for that one time I was insanely late (2 hours), and you can read about it in my reviews. No amount of apologizing gets that to lessen in my mind. Its still a fabulous review.
I like incall. I am the hostess, and I like to make my guest feel comfortable. I like to bring guests to my home if they see me in Los Angeles, because they can see another aspect of me: the part of me that is artistic, and a fairly mellow bookworm to boot. Oh yes, I have parking and I live right on the beach. It doesn't get much better. If you are really cool I crack open some red wine and some homemade snacks.
Finally figured out who in the world would be posting against incall agencies and incall providers--an outcall-only agency. Of course. Makes perfect sense. No hobbyist in his right mind worries about incall.
