Illuminated by candle light?!  

Which do prefer?  

The transparency or the mystery?!

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A high floor hotel or apt building....not much close by, why not open...then again people do have binoculars!!!

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Candles lit, curtains closed
Unless you have yesterdays weather, Thunderstorms from the 6th floor, then by all means, curtains drawn! So erotic

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What about if its window ro window like in NYC? Where you can see the layout of your neighbors kitchen? Would you dare keep the curtains drawn?  

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...a wet sky, possibly even a thunderstorm..a skyline view overlooking the city & dimly lit candles  

I think there will be plenty of mystery that lies amongst our silhouettes...

IMO dim light, enough to see and enjoy, but not harsh is the best ambiance. At least some candle light is ideal for me.  
I feel like if it's too dark it seems like I'm trying to hide  and too bright just kills the atmosphere.

Can you tell I love cunnilingus and getting a bbbj and the visuals those activities entail?

So he can get the full view to get the blood boiling, and when things get steamy, the silhouettes are a nice touch, but not too much sensory input for sight to distract from the skin on skin and the sounds.

There is enhanced pleasure in other ways when you shut out other senses. Very cool. If you can see, taste, touch, hear, and smell all at once, it's overload. So limiting part of one or two is a really cool way to enhance the physical touch and the sounds.

I think that's why you hear a lot of songs about "Dim all the slights, sweet darling, cuz tonight it's all the waaaayyyyy"!  

xoxo

I like to have candles on, makes it more romantic and sensual

, draw the curtains, and then ask if they prefer more or less light. I do the same with the temperature. A nice neutral 70 degrees, and I ask if they prefer a change