I really need help understanding this website!! Can I put a picture up !?
At the top of every Discussion Board page is a link "Self-Help Center" located below the life saver image that has lots and lots of information about TER and how to use it. If you are a provider (which you probably are since you want to post an image) then the 3rd and 4th links are what you need. Read them both.
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