HOBBYISTS,  
   I've got to say this right now. The standards that you guys have are outrageously stupid.  First of all, I have read most of the post from both Hobbyists & Providers. Frankly, If the Hobbyists are not willing to pay what is being asked by the Provider, Then get yourself some lube and porn and jerk off in your room. I believe that both Providers and Hobbyists are putting themselves at risk on some level (Not the same level), but close. Therefore, lower your standards (We the Providers  definitely have). We do not sit here on this site and state what you guys (Hobbyists) must look like down to the Tee. We just ask for respect (there's a difference).