I recently gave a girl a gift on our 2nd meeting that I knew she would like. It wasn't your normal money or flowers or anything but something that she would actually use alot. She loved it and seemed genuinely surprised. It did get me an unforgettable 3rd visit too and now she knows there is alot more where that came from.

I'm not sure of the gifts I've given.... but I was pleasantly surprised and touched when a provider gave me gifts that while small, where very thoughtful.

Are the ones that come from the heart and show that the gift was carefully thought out such as a favorite wine, favorite restaurant, dark chocolate, etc ... When someone remembers and thinks about the smallest details!

It was a real pearl necklace, it was for Christmas. She got the joke.

The following year I paid for a trip to Italy for his birthday. We've had many exotic birthday trips since.

I actually listen to girls I see and a few have given hints and tell me things to see if I am listening and I always catch on. They are always impressed on future visits that I remember things they say and do and they remember stuff about me as well which impresses me. Maybe we aren't just another guy to them as some providers treat guys they see.

She had just purchased one of his books and was already hooked.  As it was, I was seeing her the next day as well so I gave her half a dozen books by the same author.

I think the best gift I gave a provider was a new pair of shoes, high heels from JustFab.  I had her size before we got together.  Best gift I received was...well.....her body.

....usually a friend will pick one thing MAYBE 2 off of your wishlist but this person brought several. I was given some of my favorite perfume, chocolates, candles, pair of shoes, earrings and a simple nice card saying 'thank you' for "allowing" him to be my date ... talk about a great BFE lol. It was the thoughtfulness really that made those gifts the best. He went way beyond and it was really, really nice of him.

A car from a chicken farmer in Georgia

I don't have my chicken farmer anymore though, or the car for that matter because an asshole in South Milwaukee hit me in the ass and totaled it. That was the only time I hated it in the ass, oh well I got a better car after that anyway. On looking back, I should've married him. I'm an idiot. -e-