Survey says cheating or not?
I'm asking because there's an part-time intern at work that I've been dating and we have not fucked yet. She one of the few female engineer and very sought after(for mating purposes, my rating probably 8~9). Seems like she would like for us to be more committed after she graduate this year. So, I'm wondering if we did commit to be a couple and I continue my raunchy habit but only going for BJ and HJ, would this be cheating? Another problem is that I'm her boss now and possibly again after she graduates as well. She's got the pretty face and nice boobs that anyone one of you would fork out $500-$1000 for one time fucking experience with hers it cheating if SHE were to be paying another man to satisfy her (and not telling you about it, and letting you think you were the only one to be intimate with her?)
Whatever you answer for her, then that's the answer for yourself. Of course, if you tell her up front, that you're going to be doing the HJ and BF thing , let HER decide if she's okay with that. Maybe she will be, who knows. Takes some of the work off of her then that way, as most women stop doing all that once they get what they want from a guy. (the security of half of everything you own and maybe a few kids to boot) Why do they care if your'e getting it from someplace else, many are no doubt relieved.That's how I've always justified it
Hers would be the only opinion that counts if you become a couple. Doesn't matter what opinions we might hold, nor what your personal guilt meter might have to say.
But have a good long talk with the HR department before you get sexually involved with someone you supervise. It's not just your own reputation at stake, your employer is also at risk if you fuck it up. It might be worth $1K for a one time fucking experience with her, but is it worth your career?
In my opinion, seeing an escort is not "cheating". Cheating is having a deep, emotional connection to a person other than your SO or Spouse. Even if you develop a friendship of sorts with the escort, it is not
cheating. There is (or should be) no expectations of Love or deep feelings between hobbyist and escort.
I agree and I'm sure most wife's and SO 's do too lol
You say she is an 8-9 and we would pay 500-1000 for a one time fuck?
Tell her she is an 8-9 and offer her the 1k for a fuck and see what happens! If she takes it and does not punch you in the face, she is probably setting you up for a lawsuit. The 1k is just a retainer fee for her lawyer. Most places I have worked fired both employees for fucking around. Who knows she just might be an escort and you are a john, how would we know? This is all for fantasy on this site right! Btw it is only cheating if she swallows!...months now. In fact, the last few times you've kissed her you've been sucking my cum off of her youthful pouty lips. Times have changed and it's now OK for a boss to have sex with a subordinate as long as the boss treats the subordinate favorably with frequent pay raises, inflated performance appraisals and paid time off whenever the subordinate asks. Good luck and have fun, buddy. She LOVES side saddle!
You have an intelligent, beautiful women in a professional setting and your sick view of women immediately objectifies her as a source of pleasure, not an equal in the workplace. Even worse, she is an organizational subordinate that you have rank over. Maybe it's the workplace power you have over her that makes this even more enticing.
Please leave this girl alone and let her become something more than your paramourBut is your message really any better?
Fact is she sought me out, by asking me to dinner. On first date I express I'm not interested in committed relationship, but she kept asking me out, and I'm not going to fucking turn down a hot chicks request. I would have fucked her already had I known she didn't want to start her career here.
Please leave this girl alone and let her become something more than your paramour.
Would be hard to fire me, as I own 10% of the company. Not saying it couldn't happen, but saying it will be very difficult.
Tell her she is an 8-9 and offer her the 1k for a fuck and see what happens! If she takes it and does not punch you in the face, she is probably setting you up for a lawsuit. The 1k is just a retainer fee for her lawyer.
Most places I have worked fired both employees for fucking around.
Who knows she just might be an escort and you are a john, how would we know? This is all for fantasy on this site right!
Btw it is only cheating if she swallows!
Isn't this the first girl you've ever rated this high here? I'm definitely interested. PM me a picture...
In answer to your cheating question...No, it's just sex, needed stress release, friendships (with benefits of course), and exactly what most every married guy or guy with a gf here is doing. Don't stress out about it. And do not ask her for permission.Tell her she is an 8-9 and offer her the 1k for a fuck and see what happens! If she takes it and does not punch you in the face, she is probably setting you up for a lawsuit. The 1k is just a retainer fee for her lawyer.
Most places I have worked fired both employees for fucking around.
Who knows she just might be an escort and you are a john, how would we know? This is all for fantasy on this site right!
Btw it is only cheating if she swallows!
I've never rated anyone 8 or higher here. Sorry, no pictures w/o her consent, which is very unlikely. IOP, I think it's cheating, and I just like to know how others justify it.
In answer to your cheating question...No, it's just sex, needed stress release, friendships (with benefits of course), and exactly what most every married guy or guy with a gf here is doing. Don't stress out about it. And do not ask her for permission.
Tell her she is an 8-9 and offer her the 1k for a fuck and see what happens! If she takes it and does not punch you in the face, she is probably setting you up for a lawsuit. The 1k is just a retainer fee for her lawyer.
Most places I have worked fired both employees for fucking around.
Who knows she just might be an escort and you are a john, how would we know? This is all for fantasy on this site right!
Btw it is only cheating if she swallows!
As a 10% owner of small either soft/hardware Company, you need to back the hell off...find her job somewhere else if you are going to date her...DO NOT shit where you eat...this can go 1000 different ways to the bad and only one way to the good...
Hot chick or not..."try and be the adult here" ...she will own your 10% and then some... She just has to whisper "harassment" from one of the "owners" of the company and your toast...and rightfully so...as one of the most paranoid hobbyists on this board, it blows me away that you do not see the potential of this blowing up...big time... You are still a fack-tard, that has shown slight improvement in your stupid posts and comments... You take your personal morality questions concerning our hobby...to a group of people who are here to share in their JOY and experiences of this hobby, (the oldest by the way), who obviously like what they are doing...we all have our OWN reasons for being here...deal with it dude...it is your face in the mirror... IMHO...it should ALL be legal...sex, drugs and rock n roll...tax it and make it safer for EVERYONE and remove the criminal element completely...Win fn' Win... As far as the INTERN you are taking advantage of, and you are taking advantage of her, (if she blows you under the desk, it is still your fault even if it were her idea)... You need a heart to heart with her what is appropriate at work...texts...emails...conversations... Religion, Sex and Politics do not belong in the work place, period...IMHOThanks
Kram
Particularly if this relationship results in a lawsuit against the company.
Blah, blah, blah, going to be hard to turn down a blowjob form a hot chick under my desk should I get the request. I know where your coming from, spending all your social security $$ on blowjob and not enough left over to pay the bills, I totally get that.
Hot chick or not..."try and be the adult here" ...she will own your 10% and then some...
She just has to whisper "harassment" from one of the "owners" of the company and your toast...and rightfully so...as one of the most paranoid hobbyists on this board, it blows me away that you do not see the potential of this blowing up...big time...
You are still a fack-tard, that has shown slight improvement in your stupid posts and comments...
You take your personal morality questions concerning our hobby...to a group of people who are here to share in their JOY and experiences of this hobby, (the oldest by the way), who obviously like what they are doing...we all have our OWN reasons for being here...deal with it dude...it is your face in the mirror...
IMHO...it should ALL be legal...sex, drugs and rock n roll...tax it and make it safer for EVERYONE and remove the criminal element completely...Win fn' Win...
As far as the INTERN you are taking advantage of, and you are taking advantage of her, (if she blows you under the desk, it is still your fault even if it were her idea)...
You need a heart to heart with her what is appropriate at work...texts...emails...conversations...
Religion, Sex and Politics do not belong in the work place, period...IMHO
Thanks
Kram