I have been out of the hobby for about 4 years due to battle with cancer. I was lucky enough to meet SF and HH. I then started seeing Carmen (TER id #14069) exclusively. Carmen apparently retired, and can't be contacted for a reference. I have emailed several reviewed providers, and left phone messages with several  others. To date I have yet to get a response from anyone. I don't want to take a chance on an a provider with no reviews from BP or elsewhere. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks.

... like P411?  If you have no references, there are providers there who are "newbie friendly" and have reviews. You could start with one of those providers, get an OK/reference, and go from there.   P411 offers a free 6 month membership if you aren't already signed up.  

Just one idea.  

Congrats to you on beating cancer!  Good luck to you in getting a new start.

I understand starting over.  I did so after being out of the game for 7 years due to a foray into the ridiculous world of marriage.  When I came back I started small, put out plenty of donations around town, and submitted reviews.  Reviews led to more appointments made and white lists and on and on.  This world is all about your word and your reputation.  If you don't know how to put some time in to get the appropriate references then there isn't anything I or anyone else can suggest you do.  Good luck.

IF you are providing the same info to ladies you are trying to see that your provided in this post, I can see why you are having a hard time.

You say you were gone 4 years and now are back.  The lady you say you were seeing regularly is NOT named Carmen instead she is Diane and her last review was 13 years ago with an out of state phone number.  I believe I know who HH is but I am not sure I know who SF is/was.

You might be better served to start out as a newbie if you can not find a common link from back then to now.  Using old/bad info or hard to link info might make things worse than being brand new.

Unless of course you had done reviews back then and could recover that identity through TER.  Some ladies have changed names over the years and if they recall your old name with reviews, they might be willing to vouch for you after some verifying of who you were/are.

Congrats on beating cancer and welcome back!

Good luck!

Thanks for the reply. Actually Carmen's last review was from 2012, not sure who Diane is.

I guess I would suggest trying to contact any providers that may remember you. Unfortunately you may need to start all over if there aren't any active providers that remember you.

Congrats on your recovery and good luck.

TER # 14069 provided in your first post

It belongs to a lady names Diana Not Carmen

I tried to post the link here, but I am not real good at that so I am not sure if it will work or not.  Somebody might be able to post it here for me if it does not work.

https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=14069

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To the guys who commented that the OP's post listed a wrong TER number, why don't you just help fix the problem.  You don't need to be a genius to notice that the number was transposed incorrectly.  So rather than pointing out the error, why not help the guy out, and post the correct number.   Carmen:  TER #14064

I figured he would know the real number and I did suggest if back then he had reviews to contact TER and revive it and use those reviews to help.

Thanks for recognizing AND being able to fix it for him

I looked her up and read a few of her reviews from some of the well-known guys that are still around... vorlon, quoderat, rambleon1, and many others too numerous to name...

Carmen had some good reviews at a price I'd love to see now...damn inflation lol

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It won't solve all your issues but it goes along way towards doing so.