I realize some providers may go UTR............In this forum is it OK to ask about providers that have not been on here for quite awhile

If all their reviews are still in tact, them I believe they are allowed to be asked about.

It's fine as long as you pay homage to Catherine the Great at least once a year

I had a previous post asking about Melissa Angie Anderson pulled earlier. Not sure why. I'm still kicking myself for missing that opportunity!

TER will remove your post but you can always search to see if their reviews are still up first.  In that case you should be OK.  But of course UTR providers are UTR for a reason and those who are still in touch with them are very unlikely to say anything publicly.

Well once again my post was removed. The reason was that I referenced a D-Listed provider however her name and her reviews are still available for anyone's enjoyment.

My understanding is that if she is delisted, her profile and reviews should be removed as well.

But if her reviews are still up she is not delisted and should be open for discussion. More than likely someone reported your post and rather than check, TER just removed it. To remove or not remove posts depends largely on which admin is working at the time.

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Well its kind of their world and we're just living in it

your handle sounds "fishy" to me.

Where do they go when they retire? Dont think they have a pension or 401. They just disappear with no notice. They dont announce it. Its that kind of business. I know the only regular i knew quit and bam, no more texts or emails or nothing

There waa one provider that i was aware in advance that they'd  be dissappearing shortly.   I waa in her inner circle and already had her personal info..  We still stay in touch years after her diappearance.  But I've never shared knowledge of her with any other client or provider.

But I'm sure it's  more common than you think.  Providers establish their inner circle of clients that  they  not only trust but enjoy spending time with, (physically and socially).  At that point they don't  need the risk of meeting any new clients.   So they just disappear to all but their most trusted.  

Now any of you former providers that wanted me to stay in touch but you just forgot to give me your personal info,  pm me.  

I believe i was in the inner circle of the one i was referring to and she even said as much and even gave an occasional text in between. But knew she was having a lot of issues so maybe wanted to forget about everything for a while. Dont think shes UTR but who knows. We'll see
Anyway maybe its better to not get attached even though its more of a comfort level. This is the difficult part of this business . I think the ladies are better at dealing with it. I like to ask them and hear some crazy stories and requests from the guys who see em. I guess we just have to keep our heads straight( no pun intended, but i'm sure most of us do

I get misty in the eyes, especially if it happens to be tuesday.

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