Been at this for awhile and thought I've seen everything.
This is the first I've been told if I wanted bj ,it would required more donations. She's said its more work verse her just laying on her back

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find a new diversion.  Your presence here is not helpful.

stroke you for free everytime you decide to jerk and cum on your keyboard.

This post illastrates how some guys are just interested in a provider that they have no real connection with & they can use just to get themselves OFF ! & guys that truly wish to share a respectfull emotional connection with a provider. I believe the review & posting history of hobbiests tells me who's advice to follow.

Respect is not an emotional connection,  its basically just manners.  If youre out there to get emotionally connected with women get a girlfriend

Lol, real emotional connection don't require $$$. Try not giving your favorite ho any $$ on your next visit and see how much emotional connection you'll have with her. This is a business of fuck, pay, leave or pay, fuck, leave. Your an idiot thinking otherwise.

shitting me...just like meeting any new person you may not connect even socially let alone "emotionally".  It may be awkward.  You may not be people that could ever sit and bullshit in any situation.  But...this is the hobby and there is a mutual respect for the arrangement and it should go down as expected and negotiated.  Would you consider that one of those "just to get themselves OFF" scenarios?  Providers...please chime in and answer this...do you want every client to come in all doe eyed full of loving feelings wanting an "emotional connection" or would that shit turn you off and drive you crazy?  Sounds like DNS list material mind game stuff to me.  mrhuck I venture a guess I'm already off your list of people who's advice you follow but here's my point -----> value judgements are lame.  As long as there is mutual respect I'd say it's a successful booking.

 
PS...board admins always pull my posts for having ALL CAPS HEADLINES but I guess your post is more important than rules.

Happy Friday All...go out and get some and support your fav local ladies

I see the emotional connection as she purses lips and tries not to grab a big hand full of his bat ear...someone keeps his eyes open whilst kissing...(or is that old rich fuck already DOA?)...sexy!!

RADAR

Of course an uncaring disrespectful moron like talon that has never reviewed a providers performance above a 7 would not know an emotional connection if it was presented to him, you may have many reviews but you don't seem to have a very good time at the hobby.

How did you find my picture ?

There are just some providers that I couldn't and wouldn't see. I have my values and principles. Money's not everything.

There's nothing inherently wrong with seeing someone just to get off.  There's also nothing wrong if a provider and client have a friendly relationship that goes beyond what happens BCD.

Consenting adults after all.

So if I look at the entire time I've been in hobby world I would say 60-70% of the men I've met seem to want a connection. Sometimes this has come easy, some very easy & sometimes not at all.

      For the most part this isn't a bother and as much as I want to name specific situations where it can get tricky, I just can't bring myself to & also don't want this too long.  

It's all about balance & as long as those seeking connection respect each provider the way she does things then every type can get what they want..

In other words don't expect every connection to be big outside of play time some of us are not trying to be greedy we are just trying to stay balanced and sane & keep up on our obligations in life...

Sometimes humans that share themselves w/ each other need to know how NOT to get jealous, needy, demanding, ect.
I don't need or want to fall in love & I know just how to keep myself from it!

So for those that made the connection -please realize it's not one size fits all- the way one gal can casually call, text or spend OTC time is not universal to all of us, as a gal that had a hard time keeping my own identity in my previous relationships...
 I truly value who I am as a single gal without influence and dependence on another.  

To sum up hell yes it can be annoying IF the guy looking for connection is on the needy side, thank goodness that's NOT usually the case, IMO (& from my experience) Mr.H is very balanced & simply seems to mean chemistry, respect & friendly type visits rather than "wam, bam bye mam"

I've not really had any problems w/the couple now & again who seem to see the friendship as more, it can lead to tiny little annoyances & usually that just has us parting ways, no big -live & learn right.  

 
Thanks for inviting providers opinions Wong I really like that.  

 

 

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just wanted to bring into the discussion a caution for any present or future newbie that may read this thread that it's unrealistic to be seeking out "emotional connection".  I think a lot of new clients come into the hobby because of the divorce, the breakup, the lack of (fill in the blank).  Those newbies need to know you can hobby to fill a few of your needs (time, companionship, and whatever happens in the session) but your emotional needs should be filled by family and friends.  Otherwise ya gonna feel like ya got burned and it will be a negative experience.  If you want "emotional connection" IMHO you need to date in the civie world and not look for that in the hobby.  Other connections in the hobby world are possible and awesome when they happen...but again IMHO that is the exception and not the norm.