It seems her phone and neither email are working.  Does anyone know if she is still around and engaged in the hobby?

someone has left the hobby.

Or at least taking a hiatus or maybe even moved elsewhere.

and said a couple of days later this week that would work, but then all of a sudden I haven't heard anything back. She said something about being back for a bit, but I don't know where she's been off to.

Charlette is still out there laying a little low.  She has other things that's she pursues so she's  not always quick to respond, (especially if you pester her).   She is absolutely incredible if you're a classy gentleman and can be patient.   She's well worth the wait and if she does contact you, Treat her with respect.  She is one of a kind!