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ultimatebfe 2 Reviews 8472 reads
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No, I'm not addressing a meeting of Target employees. Simply put, what would you do if an escort insisted on wearing a female condom before you dined at the Y?

peachs10109 reads

Just as I would not eat my hamburger wrapped in cellophane, I would be out the door faster than you could say mustard!!!

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Ahasuerus10215 reads

Peachs's hamburger analogy is interesting.  The sentiment really boils down to "barriers just spoil things, so forget 'em," a line of thinking that of course leads straight to BBFS; but the analogy is nicely calculated to obscure that connection and implication.

In unprotected oral, the principal risk of transmission is from genitalia to mouth, rather than vice versa.  Thus uprotected DATY is more risky to the client than BBBJ, and less risky to the provider.  So in the scenario you describe, the female condom is more for your protection than hers--as well as interfering with her pleasure more than yours.

I have not tried it, but it has occurred to me that the female condom shows promise as a barrier for DATY, if barrier be wanted.  The polyurethane is quite thin, and the two springy rings (one on the outside, the other deep inside round the cervix like the rim of a diaphragm) would hold the barrier in place hands-free--unlike a dental or Glyde dam, or a cut-open condom.  (The full wrap in Saran, through the crotch and round the waist, is also a no-hands arrangement but would seem to keep too much lovely skin from caressing hands.)  Plus even if like me you prefer to let your member get air during DATY, you can still move straight to protected FS without interruption.  

These things might also be convenient for threesomes, to prevent woman-to-woman transmission via the shared outside of the male condom.

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eatpussy9865 reads

in my experience it's shaped more like a taco
than a hamburger

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moe4209328 reads

I guess it would depend on if it was something that I thought I had to do.  If it was something that I just couldn't live without doing with this provider, and it was the only way it was going to happen I would do it.  If it was an activity that I didnt have to do I would skip it and move on to more fun stuff.

I find it funny that one reply states they would leave immediately.  My guess is if a provider refused to a bbj and the only way a bj was happening was covered and left she would get roasted on the boards as being a rip off.  Ahh the double standards of this hobby.  I'm sure some will not like this comment and call me a sell out but oh well.  I can deal with it.

That's just my opinion I could be wrong.

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Moonray11058 reads

Well, I don't see how this would be any worse than a provider who doesn't allow DATY at all.  At least you have an option; uninspiring as it may be.  I’m sure everyone’s encountered a No DATY provider.  It’s always disappointing, but I doubt too many guys have walked out solely on account of being presented with a no DATY rule.  So why would a guy who doesn’t bail on a NO DATY provider bail on a covered DATY provider?  The logic escapes me.  Just turn down the covered DATY and you got yourself a NO DATY.

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peachs10254 reads

I don't recall ever having a witness as to when and if I bail? FYI. I don't ever Have to bail, as I do my research!!!

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Moonray10881 reads

I never claimed to be privy to your bailing record, but based on the fact that I’ve never heard of any guy ever bailing on a provider simply because of a no DATY rule--provided there were no other extenuating circumstances, and appearance and attitude were otherwise good—it’s a safe bet that you wouldn’t either.  It seems much more likely that you were taking the opportunity to engage in a bit of hyperbole to further expound on your point from a previous thread about the travesty of covered oral.  But hey, I don’t know you; perhaps you’re a rare breed.

I agree that it pays to do your research.  The knowledge base on available providers is rather thin, however.  If you require complete confidence that a provider will allow you uncovered DATY before you will book, you’ll have to avoid about 95% of the available providers, and never be tempted to be the first one to try anyone new.  You’ll also need to either always book in advance, or just get lucky a lot if you like making last minute appointments.  Congratulations on your success so far.


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srvfan10835 reads

A couple of years ago in Vegas, I decided to try one of the infamous "Ranches" outside of town. My first hour with the lady was very nice and she allowed DATY. During the second hour, we were chatting and she asked if I minded that we DATY again, only this time with a female condom that she wanted to try.

Well ...... picture this woman standing next to the bed, legs wide apart trying to insert this thing for the first time. I was on the bed laughing, then she started to laugh and we then became hysterical with all of the shenanigans with this thing.

She finally got it inserted and we went at it. She orgasmed but this thing kept moving around and coming out. Now she couldn't feel the baggie coming out but I could, so here I am ..... trying to pleasure this woman and I've got "Saran Wrap" in my mouth, trying not to laugh and trying not to choke.

I can't tell you about female condoms and health risks, but be prepared for some laughter. ;)
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Viper29933 reads

If I had to DATY with a wrapper....would pass.  I look at the lady and her personal hygene to determeine if I want to DATY if allowed.  If she is not clean or smells bad...NO way!

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sexluvr11379 reads

Sorry your date did not meet your expectations.

I have always felt that an encounter within this "hobby" is a mutual experience.  However, both parties have an option to engage again or not to engage again after their first experience.

If the experience doesn't meet your criteria for what you are looking for, then it would appropriate to not call her again - and write off the cost of the initial date.  Basically, it's called gambling.  

In my mind, it is always the first encounter with a provider that determines whether you want to see her again.  And vice (yes - I said vice) versa....    I have seen many people only once...  and many people more than once.  And I would say its dependent on whether the encounter was consistent with my expectations.  

If you want to be certain that a provider meets your expectations, you need to do your homework - look at reviews...  ask others...., otherwise...  your expectations should be reduced - and enjoy what you have at the time.

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