hi guys asha banks here !!! just wondering what would be consider the ideal ending for a bj  

don't end too quickly.
Sometimes there is a measure of disappointment because my partner thinks it's over and drops the ball.  And just as it is wonderful to get hard in a woman's mouth, there are not many better things than the partner who makes sure she's got every drop.

I don't care if she swallows.

I agree with lockstock. Whatever you do don't quit early. To me swallowing is about the hottest thing a woman can do for a man. Look me in the eye, and with a devilish grin down the hatch. That would get me coming back every time.

probably never will, doesn't interest me.
I agree with not stopping too soon so swallow would be my choice.
I hope too meet you someday.

Swallow only. not interested in any other conclusion and won't want you to start unless that is the intended conclusion.  

Okay, here is the absolute, ultimate fantasy ending: keep sucking gently until it starts to soften, then open your mouth and show me the results, and finally swallow with a sweet smile and a "thank you"    But in terms of real life, the most important thing, spit or swallow, is to keep it in your mouth until well after the guy is done cumming.

Flycasual you said it best! Except i dont need to see the results or get a thank you! I would be thanking her! Anybody available this weekend for a hour or two of flycasuals ultimate fantasy?

Posted By: FlyCasual

Okay, here is the absolute, ultimate fantasy ending: keep sucking gently until it starts to soften, then open your mouth and show me the results, and finally swallow with a sweet smile and a "thank you"    But in terms of real life, the most important thing, spit or swallow, is to keep it in your mouth until well after the guy is done cumming.

Ditto for me...couldn't agree more

... lightly massage the juice along the shaft but avoid the overly sensitive head. Get messy! Cum swap? I'd love to! Kiss me with your mouth full...I'll get rid of the evidence.  

I like getting blowjobs. Happen so rarely so I don't really care what happens as long as I cum.

For me, the absolute best ending would be like an oral creampie. Let some of my cum leak out of your mouth and let it run down my cock and then deep throat me to gather it back into your mouth. A little cum play like that would be incredible! Than finish it off with a nice swallow.  
If you're going to spit, I'd just prefer you to let it all run out of your mouth down my cock. The thing is, the feeling of cumming into a woman's mouth is about the best feeling in the world. Having to pull out at the moment it feels the best is always a bit of a downer.  
It would be like licking a clit and then right at the verge of cumming, switch to using your fingers. Still works but just not as good.

1 - swallow
2 - spit

...once I deliver it, I don't care what you do with it.  Just take delivery.   ....and then don't try DFK me with a slippery tongue...

I don't really care where the cum goes...for me, the perfect ending is a new beginning; in other words, after the blowjob I'm going to eat you out.  And then, of course, is the perfect conclusion part 2: intercourse.  IOW, oral is part of the foreplay for me.  The only time I want to cum on someone's face or in their mouth, is when I know she allows for multiple pops.

A snowball finish is hot.  With or without the dominance aspect.

Swallow-the best. Most personal.  
Facial-good in BDSM or PS nasty session  
Spit-good if drooled or played with, not a sprint to the sink.

would be moaning & speed jacking the shaft til I'm totally spent.
All this would be completed after pulling out and removing the cover so it would require some coordination.

So what's going to Asha ?
Let us know please.

I will pay a provider extra to make sure this happens.

Swallow or spit in a tissue, but don't spit on me.  (My $.02)

But don't be the dickhead who leaves it 25 feet down my driveway.

Ones I've encountered don't spit, exactly, they just let it slide out of their mouths. I'm no fan of the stuff, but it's not very different from letting it go out of their mouths.

Swallow EOM

Don't need to see it, but by all means keep working that throbbing thing till it's done.  Swallow.  Then put it back in your mouth till it gets soft.  Love getting soft in her mouth when it's done.

I like to get dirty and nasty while I play, so I'd like to cum in mouth and if she wants to share I'd love a snowball.
If she wants it all to herself then I'd like to see it before she swallows.
With a facial I would like to DFK after and enjoy some of the sticky mess on me too.

Much as I like you to go down on me, I prefer that it end pre-orgasm, with us then arranging things for a rousing f**k - your choice of position or we can try 'em all.