I've been watching a lot of porn, and in several of these vignettes, the gentlemen callers use language that is far, far from polite when addressing the lass.  As it happens, this nasty talk makes my dick twitch, and I fantasize about repeating the words and phrases I've heard in the blue movies.

some ladies love dirty talk and others do not like it.  For myself, the quickest way for me to turn cold as ice is to use the word "cunt".  I don't like that word.  I think it is a dirty nasty derogatory word and I just despise it.  I also do not like references such as "daddy cock" , etc.  Too many negative connotations for me.  

I tend to shock others (in a good way) i get so hot, the words that come out of my mouth are very unladylike. But the gents LOVE it. Sure, i would enjoy it.. as long as i knew previously this is your fantasy and your not just coming off as a aggressive human. Normally dirty talk tends to turn into rough play, which i'm not a huge fan of. Be nice to my kitty and listen to her soft sweet puuurrrs.

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But it might be better to ask about it in-person with providers you have already seen and are comfortable with.

Lets ask the question the other way ... What do you do as a client and the provider starts with the naughty talk? Do you like it or not?

Welcome to My World Baby

Not only do I Welcome it, I ENCOURAGE it, of course if my partner is cool with talking naughty

Do you mind it if a girl talks naughty?

As if you could hear their muffled cries of protest through their strawberry stuffed mouths.

Racist not okay but racial it depends ....

.... a guy "slipped" the n-word once in the heat of the moment and needless to say he almost got beat to death (kidding .... kind of).  
Now .... "you like this white cock you sexy black bitch" just might make me wetter.  I like it dirty, vulgar, crass just uhhhh be a little careful.    
Personally ... words such as whore, slut, bitch are like salt .... can enhance the flavor but use them sparingly lol.

I think dirty talk can be a great turn on if it's natural. If the fun is heightening and words just start to blurt out like tourrets, it shows that the time is being enjoyed.  
Bri, I woulod love to hear those words flowing out of your mouth.. LOL
It is easy to hear fake dirty words just in hopes to help the other person. The is a huge turn off

Re: Racist not okay but racial it depends .... Ooo like salt...

I like that. =)  I don't mind dirty talk as long as I feel safe. And one thing that's fact about me I've never met my father  
& never will, I've also never grown up with a father figure...so any "daddy terms" don't bother me at all.
~Mindy

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I understand that there are different strokes however; I can not and will not ever be able to understand why any man could get excited about berating or deeply insulting a woman who has invited you to have sex with her.  
 My fantasy is falling in love for an hour and going back to my real life with that precious memory lingering.  Dirty is fun, I set apts with one favorite lady by leaving a message "what would you say to a little fuck?"  she will wright back "hey little fuck"  may things are said that would get bleeped on TV but "suck my cock like the dirty whore... "  What pleasure does anyone get out of that.  
It is degrading, it can only be degrading.  If a provider is OK with it then she OK with being degraded.  The daddy stuff is really bad because a disproportionate number of ladies in this business have experienced abuse in their young life.  
'Suck my cock like you are mad at it', or a whisper 'are you going to give me that sweet little pussy'
leave her daddy out of it.  I have met a number of very hot lovers, don't know and dirty whores.  

Re: Racist not okay but racial it depends .... Ooo like salt...

I don't call mine daddy so it's not really a problem for me either .
Personally I feel awkward when dirty talking but if I know them somewhat well I might ...

A little "whose your daddy" talk is pretty harmless & words like "big daddy" too are harmless....
Now taking on other phrasing like "sweet little pussy" & placing daddy words are -yes creepy- I feel I just need to clarify I'm cool w/light "daddy talk"......
       Cheyen makes a good point,
       I actually never thought of the whole abuse thing & I'm sorry if I've offended anyone.

Look at the last couple hundred years here in America...progress is being made albeit slowly.

....has his opinions but they are not shared by all here as anyone can plainly see.  The keys are intent and context.  I know people who play in the BDSM realm and their language and activities are often times judged harshly as abuse when it is really lack of understanding by those doing the judging.  The bottom line is that abuse requires an intent to do harm and dirty talk in intimacy between two consenting adults is up to them, PERIOD!  In most cases it's not the words that are disrespectful, it's the attitude and intent behind those words.  It's a crucial difference that is lost on many who are quick to judge others.   So, you just keep having fun and making more of us Mindyians.

supreme court justice Stewart described porn in 1963 by saying 'I know it when I see it'.  it is not mean when both people are in on it and it is just fun.  I personally love dirty talk teasing, it's fun.

.....what this thread was about.  Words are not the problem imho.  I can cut someone emotionally and never use a "dirty" word because it is the intent of what I say, not the words  themselves.  No one here was condoning true abuse of anyone, provider or client.  BTW, I know several women who LOVE being called a "dirty whore" in the heat of passion, but say it to them as a derogatory statement and you'll get your ass kicked.

I don't mind if people call me a whore. I don't find it particularly dirty or sexy, though, just descriptive. Like if I served coffee and you called me a barista.

Re: Hahahaha ..... Yeah, as IF -eom-

I'm usually so horny I'm not hearing what the young lady always says during the action.  She could ask me if dirty talk is okay or if she can put out my eye with her stilleto and I would probably be panting, "sure...sure."