can't talk about it until you paid?  If your going to tell me, don't see un-reviewed provide, go take a hike and don't bother replying.

I've wondered about that too. But I don't think it would hurt to ask, unless specified on a website, if they are comfortable talking about expectations or something like thar. I'm guessing it has all to do with how you ask.

quite like being ignorant and insisting on remaining so...

LOL, I'm gonna try that next time.

I often ask if they offer GFE.  Sometimes they will lie and say yes, but sometimes they say "no, I don't kiss or anything like that."  Then it's usually a done deal that I won't see them.  

You can also find a more detailed menu on my P411 profile. If that doesn't help you, check out my recent reviews, and if you seriously need more.lol..get verified and pass my simple screening and I'd be happy to discuss it further.

With an unreviewed provider, you simply may not know ahead of time and the more questions you ask, the more likely it is she may think you are LE.  As a general rule, the higher the rate, the more open the menu is but that is certainly not true all the time.

I must be consider an awesome team player, because I've taken many for the team.  I'm guessing just this year ~20, yes all with no reviews, until I got robbed, then not so much after that.