Out of the blue today I find myself missing an old friend/provider. She was an amazing lady who made you feel like an old friend until you really were one.
It's just $$$, business and pussy. The sooner you realize this the better off you are, stop wishing it otherwise.
I'm thinking you know how to search if you wanted to see someone.
Since you don't mention who this old friend is, we can't say how great she is and how much we miss her as well so...Interesting post I think but I feel like a derp for reading it
I think of her almost every day. She was an amazing woman. Kind, gentle, caring & wild when it counts. She left us way too soon
She gets in touch and then she disappears again. I just hope she is well and I get to see her again!
You were probably a good client and she sounds like a great provider, Its not like you're missing a dentist, you're missing a lady who you enjoyed spending time with.
Take Talon, for example. See how better off HE is... ;-/
You have shared intimate things with another human being who made you feel wonderful, both inside and out. It is normal for a human (who's not an asshole...) to miss that connection.
I have a few ladies who have moved on whom I remember quite fondly.
You bet it does. Among those of us that genuinely care about people anyway & are careful to screen for compatibility in addition to safety.
Even when two people never meet it is possible to grow a fondness for someone & feel compassion for them as well as mourn when we lose them. I'd venture to guess the majority of ladies here can relate. Despite the rules & boundaries that are important to adhere to in the hobby we are still human. I myself at times find myself angry & saddened that I can't do more to support & console many people I have met & not met for that matter. It is what it is though & those boundaries are there for good reason.
Even when two people never meet it is possible to grow a fondness for someone & feel compassion for them as well as mourn when we lose them. I'd venture to guess the majority of ladies here can relate.
Despite the rules & boundaries that are important to adhere to in the hobby we are still human. I myself at times find myself angry & saddened that I can't do more to support & console many people I have met & not met for that matter. It is what it is though & those boundaries are there for good reason.
If you or them care so much for each other, next time you visit them, ask the provider if she blow or fuck you for free. If not they don't give a shit about except your $$.
And I can guarantee you that I miss them, more than they miss me. if they even remember me at all.
... that is, that it's only about the $$$ and pussy. But it hasn't been my experience. I think it depends on how you approach this so-called "hobby", and the type of providers you seek... and how you treat them.
And btw, this isn't about whether providers give away their valuable time for free. I always get paid when I work with my clients, but there's many of them I love working with, and I have a lot of good memories of those experiences over the years. Yes, I even miss some of those clients whom I haven't seen for awhile. Human relationships, even in business, are about a lot more that just money... and pussy....you felt fondly about.
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I'm sure that is the sum total of your experience. Whether you believe it or not, it is possible for escorts, just like any other person who works where they have clients, to genuinely like some of their clients. Doesn't mean they provide their services for free though nor should their clients/friends expect them to.
Some of us have a heart and feelings. Geeezzzz
If you poke us, $20 bills will not come out of us...... I thinkSome providers do worry me, they may actually spit out money
Not the same thing.
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Wrong!! The people I care for I do things for them FREE of any kind compensation. Keep on wishing it otherwise, next time your broke go to the provider that cared so much for your and ask for blowjob.
Fuck NO!! This hobby is just suck, fuck, cash and dash. If I want drama I would have steady gf or be married already. You love/care your husband/bf?? Try telling him it's going to be $300 for every fuck from now on, and get back to me.
If you poke us, $20 bills will not come out of us......
I think
Some providers do worry me, they may actually spit out money
Personally, I *want* connection. Sometimes it's just a one-off with someone coming through the cities, sometimes it's a regular who, for whatever reason, leaves the hobby. There are definitely people I've missed/do miss.
So yes, it goes both ways...So that one would blow you for free. Yeah, right.
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Aww, Dr. Bud, don't be so sure about that!
Looking forward to seeing our providers and clients is a good thing. Maybe not getting attached is the answer but easier said then done sometimes
I do things for free for the people I care about as well. And I have on occasion gotten extras and so forth from a provider. That is not at all the same thing as expecting a professional to provide services for free.
If a friend asked for my expertise/profession I do it for FREE!!! Because I care for them, that is the difference between the people who cares about each other and the people who pays/gets paid for fucking. Thing they give a fuck about you is just delusional.
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Maybe one of these days you actually learn enough to know that you have a lot to learn.