I would like to know how many hobbyists are married. If married does wife know or participate?
Thanks.
you got to be kidding me right? it would be rare to have a wife wanna participate.. and if she did.. let me know.. I would guess most are in the same boat.. married and just not getting enough or any for that matter...
I recall a survey TER did a few weeks ago "if your SO was willing would you provide in a threesome with a provider?" It seems to me that 70+% of respondents said yes. I read between the lines that a majority of the SO's are not putting out! Am I wrong? Maybe the next TER survey should follow up on this and be more specifice. "Are you here because of a lack of at home?"
I guess I am one of the lucky ones, as my wife did participate once. She doesn't know that I continue in the hobby, but on one very hot night, we had the pleasure of a young provider for 5 hours(supposed to be one hour, but turned into 5 hours), and my wife has been with 4 other women(not providers) since then. She says she would rather not be with a provider if she can continue to just meet other women with similar interests. Who can blame her?
Married. She doesn't know.
There was a TER poll on the question a while back that showed 50/50 split. Presumably MN is not too far off the norm. I would venture that wives do not know, with a few exceptions.
My wife and I have fabulous, multi-postion sex. about 3-4 times per week. She gives handjobs, russian, stockings and heels. But she will not bbbjtc, or even tease for more than about 2 minutes every 4-6 weeks. She doesn't know about my hobby, but I'm really just in it for the french. No way she'd ever participate.
married....wish she & I could even Talk about it......no sex here for several years at home...yes seriously !!!