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sweetkarley See my TER Reviews 2867 reads
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I sit back and read the terrible comments and post and the hurtful things you all say back and fourth to one another
and it just sickens me,,,, WHY CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG AND BE NICE TO EACH OTHER and UPLIFT EACH OTHER...
and have each others back and look out for each other,,,,, WHY???????

I remember when we used to come on here and share photos and compliment one another and Have Fun!!
this used to be an exciting place to come to...

I used to love getting on here the first thing in the morning and share photos with all the girls and we used to compliment each other and make each other feel good, I understand TER stopped that, but even the fun threads stopped, and everyone disappeared and all these trolls and evil souls showed up....

Now half of you hate people that you barley even know, or even met!!!,  
I've had people talk crap to me or about me that have NEVER met me a day in their life, Or another provider.... WHY??

Why has this board turned so damn EVIL!!! over the past year or two...

What can we do to make it better so we can make it a happy place again....

I am one of the sweetest, kind souls you will meet, and this just sucks to see So Much Hate...

LETS MAKE A CHANGE TODAY PEOPLE
PLEASE!
LOVE ONE ANOTHER
LETS JUST GET ALONG!!!!!!!

Lets Remember what we are here for, to meet new friends and have good times

Cheers!

vantheman666 10 Reviews 769 reads
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2 / 38

Yes, LE would love to get all of us.  Yes, some AMPs got busted ( I never go to those places) and some schedulers hightailed it out of town (who the hell are these girls you guys are seeing who can't use a phone or computer anyway)?  But "Jess" didn't put any of us in any more danger than we are on any typical hobbying day.  Oh, and you think "Jess" talking to the media is bad?  I've been talking to representative Cheryl Youakim about decriminalizing our hobby.  Now, she doesn't know I participate, but she probably suspects.  So go wet your pants and cower in fear.  People of color, gays, and transsexuals didn't get where they are today by hiding in the closet.  And dammit, as a hobbyist, I don't hide in the closet either.  My own daughter knows that I do this.  And I will continue to stick my neck out for myself, and for the providers I love and adore so much, until government catches up with the rest of society and starts decriminalizing our hobby.  Now make like a bunch of hippies, peace out, and make love, not war!!!

mrhuck 15 Reviews 563 reads
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...Thank you Karley,this board has gotten very negative lately & I hope that we all would consider being more supportive to each other in the future, there is far more good than bad here.

-- Modified on 10/21/2016 9:46:57 AM

Tertb 50 Reviews 488 reads
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4 / 38

I haven't been on here long, but totally agree that it seems to be a place that people get their kicks bashing others.

May peace and happiness be yours!

sweetkarley See my TER Reviews 453 reads
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Posted By: mrhuck
...Thank you Karley,this board has gotten very negative lately & I hope that we all would consider being more supportive to each other in the future, there is far more good than bad.

sweetkarley See my TER Reviews 581 reads
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Posted By: Tertb
I haven't been on here long, but totally agree that it seems to be a place that people get their kicks bashing others.  
   
 May peace and happiness be yours!

knotsaway 36 Reviews 586 reads
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7 / 38

It really needed to be said, and who better than the person who IMO does the most to uphold the tradition that made this a fun place to be in the past.

Needstomeet 545 reads
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8 / 38

turn this board into a paranoid spiteful name calling mess.  We all know who they are.  They know who they are.  Every one knows that they get a sadistic kick out of playing Uproar and keeping scoring by how many people's feeling they can hurt while they pretend to just giving hobby news.  

I just got back from a lovely session.
This activity is no more dangerous today than it was last month or three years ago.  
If you are too paranoid to play, don't play.
If you want to use the board to quietly contact people interested in the activity, that is what it is for.
But trash talking disrupts rather than conveys news. It drives wonderful clients and providers off this board.
It has been said before, 'Don't feed the trolls' especially those who wave their Free Speech Flag to justify their puerile insults. But it is true. Stop giving them the gratification of feeding them. Stop PMing them.  Providers, you know how to blacklist them--do so, if you choose to do so. Never pillow talk with them--they leak out of spite.  Those of us in this community for the exchanges it makes possible have no reason or desire to be indiscreet

turbinflyer1 15 Reviews 481 reads
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9 / 38

As all of us read this stuff, we all know it's just a few who start this stuff. I just wish they would go away and things would be fine

TCButtman 426 reads
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10 / 38

Augmented by pseudo political figures.

narcisserotoid 24 Reviews 428 reads
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11 / 38

I used to spend abt half an hour a day on ter.  I now look for abt a min in mornings, and when I get home from work.

vorlon 115 Reviews 413 reads
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14 / 38

Unfortunately, some people don't know or don't care about these this.

loveyourtouch 370 reads
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PersonX 10 Reviews 386 reads
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16 / 38

I agree.  I check the board maybe once a week at most. I don't want to muffle free speech but I've just move on to other conversation methods.  It does wonders for ones mental health.
 

Posted By: sweetkarley
I sit back and read the terrible comments and post and the hurtful things you all say back and fourth to one another  
 and it just sickens me,,,, WHY CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG AND BE NICE TO EACH OTHER and UPLIFT EACH OTHER...  
 and have each others back and look out for each other,,,,, WHY???????  
   
 I remember when we used to come on here and share photos and compliment one another and Have Fun!!  
 this used to be an exciting place to come to...  
   
 I used to love getting on here the first thing in the morning and share photos with all the girls and we used to compliment each other and make each other feel good, I understand TER stopped that, but even the fun threads stopped, and everyone disappeared and all these trolls and evil souls showed up....  
   
 Now half of you hate people that you barley even know, or even met!!!,  
 I've had people talk crap to me or about me that have NEVER met me a day in their life, Or another provider.... WHY??  
   
 Why has this board turned so damn EVIL!!! over the past year or two...  
   
 What can we do to make it better so we can make it a happy place again....  
   
 I am one of the sweetest, kind souls you will meet, and this just sucks to see So Much Hate...  
   
 LETS MAKE A CHANGE TODAY PEOPLE  
 PLEASE!  
 LOVE ONE ANOTHER  
 LETS JUST GET ALONG!!!!!!!  
   
 Lets Remember what we are here for, to meet new friends and have good times  
   
 Cheers!
-- Modified on 10/21/2016 8:37:57 PM

-- Modified on 10/21/2016 9:05:07 PM

loveyourtouch 394 reads
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17 / 38

If you don't like something on TV or radio, you change the channel.  If you don't like something in here, move along.  When I read something that is BS, I'll call it BS.  I'm not here to "make friends."  I'm here to exchange information, and I don't care what someone's favorite color is or their favorite song or if they just returned from a trip.  Take it to Facebook or Twitter.

I've had people who don't know me/have never met me write crap about me in here too. Some of it is pretty dumb shit, too. Evidence is in a thread today.  Big deal.  No harm to me.  Who's going to be the arbiter of what's evil? You?  If I want to look at pics, I'll go to those sites.  Glad TER halted that practice.  If I needed to be complimented in the morning, I'd pay a hooker to spend the night.  But I don't need that to start my day.

You wrote that half the people in here hate people they don't know.  How do you know that?  People come here for different reasons.  And because their reasons are not the same as yours, you just call them haters.

I have fun in here.  I'm happy.

Smooches.

Have a GREAT weekend!

Wongbater 40 Reviews 533 reads
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I think you don't post on TER MN?  I'd be happy to give it.

loveyourtouch 544 reads
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loveyourtouch 325 reads
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OldTimerB 45 Reviews 512 reads
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Posted By: Wongbater
I think you don't post on TER MN?  I'd be happy to give it.

Wongbater 40 Reviews 394 reads
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here and there.  what's your point?  that disturbs me.  you should be reading everything.  her good, her bad.  his too.  that's a relevant hobby participant.  if you wanna just watch like they all do so be it.  just don't expect respect where it's not earned.

loveyourtouch 375 reads
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Wongbater 40 Reviews 461 reads
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does is bother you that aliases and trolls chime in everytime I post or do you just feel bad when someone you agree with gets blasted?

Depending on your answer this is an issue of true progress toward civility or the same old push away and censor anything that makes your tummy churn.

Please let us know.

LilyTER See my TER Reviews 444 reads
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I am so glad to read your  thread   I agree with you that is the most wonderful things I have read I just wanted to say thank you 😊 yes love happy,kind, warm , smile,  breathe in breathe out be happy is the key of happiness💋

jerthebear 307 reads
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I also agree with sweet Karley. It's people like lyt that turn me off to this board. There are a couple of others 'too. It used to be fun just talking back and forth, but now there's so much bitching. I have noticed a lot of used to be regulars on this board have left and I too may soon leave and leave this board to the miserable trolls that are taking over.

Wongbater 40 Reviews 396 reads
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30 / 38

and don't that door hit you in the pretty little sass on the way out

loveyourtouch 297 reads
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31 / 38

And people like baby bear make the board lame and boring. Don't you people get tired of kicking and kissing each other's ass all the time? Always trying to one-up each other to impress women who want your money but don't give a shit about you.  I call 'em as I see 'em. Honesty, truth, and objectivity too hard to handle?

Wongbater 40 Reviews 313 reads
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I'm assuming I get no response.  Which is what I expected

loveyourtouch 389 reads
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Don't  really recall your contributions, but enjoy the next medium you join.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 303 reads
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loveyourtouch 306 reads
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It was a nice try.  I didn't  think so either.  But I think we know what the answer would have been here, and we know what the REAL answer is, which explains  the  silence.

Smooches and hugs everyone.

Wongbater 40 Reviews 379 reads
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farts giggles.  Like a grown up cheerleader

souls_harbor 391 reads
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A grateful nation is erecting monument in your honor even as we speak.

Posted By: loveyourtouch
I call 'em as I see 'em. Honesty, truth, and objectivity too hard to handle?
-- Modified on 10/23/2016 5:17:03 PM

loveyourtouch 348 reads
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