Hi Everyone,

I'm new to Minnesota and mostly new to the hobby. I've seen a few ladies in the past but no longer have their contact info for verification. I also don't want to use P411 or a similar service. Are there any providers who would be willing to see me? I can certainly provide work info and other necessary personal info (e.g., drivers license). In case anyone is curious, my ideal provider would be fair skinned, in her mid 30s or younger, reasonably priced, and of course beautiful . Sorry if I'm asking a stupid question, please don't beat me up too much.

Thanks very much

Why are you OK with giving up all that personal info but not be willing to use a site like P411?

For the most part, because I think it's too expensive. $130 dollars a year for what amounts to running an employment check just seems too much, especially considering many of the providers state that they run employment checks themselves. Beyond that, I'm a little paranoid (perhaps too much so) about leaving a paper trail via credit cards or money orders. Do you think I'm being unreasonable? It just seems to be too little bang for my buck.

I wouldn't say that. But I think you're being penny-wise, pound-foolish.  Consider that one hour with a FS provider can easily be $300 or more.  And you think $130 a year for P411 is too much to spend?

P411 has been very helpful to me.  I think 35 cents a day is very reasonable for the benefits received... the biggest to me being I don't need to provide private info to providers to get screened.

Twice over.  I personally prefer P411 because it is based in Canada and thus not easy for US LE to access.  To the best of my knowledge, it also depends on references from current members for determining who gets in although I can't say that for sure.

On the other hand, giving up your personal info to someone you've never met before leaves you vulnerable to being outed, etc. if things go badly between you and the provider.  Most providers aren't like that but enough are that it can and does happen and sometimes for nothing more than your review not being what she wants, even if it is a good one.

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I've had providers good with my P411 info and appointment was booked. No need to verify anything else. Yeah, it's basically $130 for verification but I see it as I don't have to spend time sending over my information each time I see someone new.

Some ladies offer p411 discount.  Basically zero sum game.

You don't have to keep paying. Once you have references, you're in. But it is useful to keep, because it makes researching and contacting girls easier. Also, as others have said, it pays for itself with discounts and saving you from picking the wrong girls.

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