And women who are comfortable with themselves and their bodies probably live longer still.

Unfortunately, that is not true for those of us with enough extra pounds

That we basically qualify as a sponge on the squishiness scale!

You are so beautiful to me, you are so beautiful to me can't you seeeee. ( imagine joe Cocker singing to you )

women who have a few extra pounds live longer than those who criticize them "to their face"

there is something about "don't mess with people strange to even if you are built like a two piece custom made pool cue" apology's to Jim Croce

There was a young guy this morning in the coffee shop I frequent making some mouth covered comments about how "fat" people are lazy & that "normal" people shouldn't be more than such n such size.  
 Me being the only person in there that wasn't a size 3, it was pretty obvious what's going on.
Well, not only did I out run him to the bus as it was leaving, Poor fella was gasping for air and fell down due to the floor being wet from the rain couldn't even catch his breath enough to get up .
As I helped him upright with one hand I said with a smile "good thing I'm not lazy,  who'd help you now if I wasn't here ? Not even a thanks ...
Yep, people need to hush up when it comes to who's unhealthy or lazy on account of their sizes because we really don't always know .
Xo- V.

Squishy feels OH SO MUCH BETTER than bony :

And this was my response to a recent review that fairly mentioned that I didn't look EXACTLY like my pics.  Well, last summer, I was more toned.  Winter hit.  I drank.  I ate.  Now, I'm squishy.  I use that word simply because it makes me laugh.

Coming soon to an ad board near you will be a selfie of me with my little, squishy  Take it or leave it; I am really happy to give him a good reference for someone else, as I have no reason not to.

But when we read reviews like that, whether we disagree or not, it takes an extra layer of tough skin that we have to put on.  Every blast, another layer.  Just the way it is.  However, I choose to be grateful for the healthy layers of 'tough' without losing my humanity.

ooxx,
Trin

I didn't mean any harm or not was my review meant to be malicious in any way.  I thoroughly enjoyed my hour with you and hope I conveyed that in my review.  The fact is this is a review website, where people give their experiences to help others have a better idea of what kind of experience they will have.  

Some guys like tall women, some short, some blonde, some brunette, some like girls that are "squishy", some like girls who are a little tighter. It's certainly not personal.   When we are paying for a service it helps to know what to expect.  I hope you understand and I really mean it when I say that I didn't mean any maliciousness in the review.

OOOOO Yes!!!!!

Squishy providers unite! You know, it's funny, maybe I don't get the volume of clients skinny providers get, but once someone comes to see they are HOOKED. It's not just about whether you're "model pretty" I give a GREAT experience, my curves feel GOOD to touch and all my clients know they'll be treated like the only man in the world when they come to see me