Which do you feel more comfortable with and why?

I prefer outcall.  I like to have a drink before we meet and relax in my own hotel room.  I also feel a little added security.

Jay, when it's with someone like you, incall is the best for me.   I can't see going to an incall or outcall with someone from backpage that is new to the area.  You have been around for a while and have reviews, very safe.  
How about you?  Incall or outcall?

I always get a little concerned about nosey do gooder hotel clerks and neighbors.  So she has to be allow volume lady for me.

I live out of town so it's easier and cheaper to come see you than pay you to come to me

Jay,

I'll be in Detroit for two weeks next month and you're on my bucket list. I prefer outcall because it's just more convenient for me. I don't hobby often and sometimes I don't have a rental car, especially in DT areas.

I like Outcall best because I feel more relaxed when you host. I like being treated as the guest because of great hospitality. I don't mind hosting but I like it best when you are in control of our environment.

Cool, look me up. I should be around

Thanks, I will. I'll be Downtown somewhere...

Once a trust level is build, then I prefer incall.

Both, but I think the provider would feel more comfortable with incall so that would be fine.  Now, if it's you Jay I wouldn't care if it was in a tree as long as your arms were around me.