BBBJ = mamada sin condon (pronounced "seen-condone" silent e)
also "Suky, no condon"..

CIM = fin en tu boca (feen in too bow-ka)..

These may not be exact but they should do..

For the rest you will need to solicit those would are into those practices..

BBBJ-por favor chupar me pene sin condon
cim- puedo venir en tu boca
daty-puedo chupar su vahina or puedo chupar su panocha
dfk-puedo besa usted con las lenguas
Hope this helps...

Assuming you are going to ask a club chica, I have always used the following and had no misunderstandings:

BBBJ: Chupas sin condon
DATY: Sensenta y nueve (69)
DFK:  Besas con la lingua
BBBJTC: Chupas sin condon hasta termino
Do you swallow?: Tragas