Do hobbyists and ladies "pair off" as a M & G is ending? Or, should I expect to "line-up a date" at the M & G? Or should I pre-plan to have fun later that evening or the next morning with a lady I know who will be attending? Curious minds want to know. You can PM if you would rather. Looking for info from hobbyists as well as ladies.
I've seen one end with an orgy. I didn't hang around for that, lol. I've seen couples duck off to private rooms, and not-so-private rooms during an M & G.
What I always do is show up "prepared" just in case, but with no expectations. It really is a good chance to hang out with people in our community and get pre-screened with some babes for later dates.
how do you find out about these M & G events ?
As another attending my first M&G, thanks for asking the question on my mind also. Thaks to all who posted an answer. It will be very intersting for all involved. Lots of what may happen depends upon the place where the M&G is held, I would imagine. Thaks again for all of the info.
RJ
How does one find themselves at a M&G. Are they invited and by whom? Or, do you seek them out yourself, and if so, where do you search?
They might do it by private invitation or they may just announce it here and/or on the appropriate local board. Regardless who is running it, they're going to have to clear you one way or another before giving you the exact location. Provider references, vouchers from known hobbyists, private messages here, whatever. They can't have just anyone strolling in obviously. Watch the boards, they'll let you know what you have to do to get in.
Thanks for the info.
they are all different. some are just great socials over some food and drinks. others are what some would think more wild.
like dingus said, expect the unexpected, you never know how one party might go. i never expected to have my 2 incher hangin out in the middle of 3 girls on their knees. oh, and the 3-4 other dudes too. lol, but shit happens.
spinner throws get togethers in vegas with an activity, bowling or go karts. i enjoy those because of the activity. last one even included drink throwing and yelling competition. lmfao.
i don't worry about getting laid. if you are, just set something up. i just go to have fun.
but all in all, they are just parties with something in common. people party everyday. go, have fun and if it's not your thing, just take off. the next one could be different and you can have the time of your life. they aren't all the same so what i have been to might be nothing like the one you'll be attending.
ksk; I hope you and I get to meet at the M&G you are discusing. I'm trying like heck to get to it.
RJ
KSK, some perspective from attending nearly a dozon M&G's in NYC over the two + years:
1) Pairing off does not happen for the majority of participants. But it does happen for some, if you play your cards right, and lady luck is on your side...
2) Lining up a date at the party...see my response above.
3) If you are interested in seeing any of ladies that are planning to attend the sioree, you should consider seeing them before or afterwards as a separate event. This may be your best bet for the experience you're seeking. Plus that, if you see someone you've not seen before that will be attending, it will give you an in for some good conversation/flirting during the event itself. And maybe more...
That answers your direct questions. Some other things to consider:
a) Make sure you have a room boooked within walking distance from the event. DUI is not cool, as I'm sure you know! This will be especially true if there is an afterparty, and it sounds like there will be given the vigorous response I have seen on your home board....
b) This subject came up during the conversation stage with ST this evening during our session. She considered M&G's, as I do, in the same light as a corporate cocktail party...your main purpose there is to network, meet potential new providers that you have not yet met, and may want see sometime in the future. At the same time, it gives you the oppurtunity to reconnect and catch up with those ladies you have met previously...
c) M&G's are fun! Go there expecting to just have an excellent evening!
d) Make sure you are prepared financially for afterhours activity! Have a double donation ready...you may find yourself in a doubles situation if you are looking to hook up afterward...
Feel free to PM...have a good one...
CD
I really do appreciate all the information you impart in your post. Being ready financially was something I had not thought of. Plan on having just a good time and enjoying the evening.
RJ
Rusty, M&G's are highlight moments as a hobbiest. You will meet many providers...maybe some you had met previously. Make sure you are at least ready beforehand for a single...and recognize that you may need to be ready for a double. I wish I could attend the upcoming SoFlo party, but work/distnce requires me stay at home that week. Regardless, enjoy! Have a great week-end....
CD
Once a stripper asked for my phone number and told me about some VIP party. She never called. I always thought it would be some wild orgy. Damnit!
Thanks guys. I have been to one so far. Started in an open area (near bar) of hotel. Later progressed to rooms upstairs.
I am looking forward to meeting all of you that I have read posts from and, of course, seeing the ladies in person that I only know in pictures.
Best advice I have seen is, be like a boy scout.
BE PREPARED for anything.
It should be a lot of fun. Thanks to SFG and haya for getting it started. See you in three weeks.
Swim
By the time you decide which lady you want she will already be taken..lol At least that is what happened to me..If you know a provider that wants a escort to the party {some of the ladies do not like to arrive there alone}..she will pass out her card while there, and then you take her home after the party would be the best scenario IMO..
~I might just have to join you 4 your first M&G....
-Just get back to me as soon as you can (*I'd love the excuse to travel back to the East Coast!!!*)
kisses from your friend ~T
Tomorrow is the day. I'm very excited and at the same time, nervous. After the M&G, I'll let all know how it went.
RJ