I will try to make this as short as possible. I go to a couple MPs here and there. I found a MP several months ago only to find out it is a legit place. So, I go there when I want a legit massage. They are actually one of the better massages I ever had. Even better then those corporate places like a Massage Envy.
The first time I ever went there I was hoping for a normal massage w/HE. But, it turned out legit. I remember the first time I went, it seemed another customer asked about "extras", and they freaked out. So, since then I never bothered to ask and just enjoy the massage. Now, I can't remember all the times I have gone there if something weird happened. I have been there about 5 times in the last few months. Today I went because my body was sore as hell. The Asian lady seems to remember me everytime I walk into the door. I got a normal 1 hour massage. This is where it starts to get weird. The massage is almost done. My hands are at my sides. She starts to rub my chest with one hand and grabs my hand with the other. And, places my hand, that she's holding, on my hip. Very close to Junior(that is covered with a towel). She never did that before. I had a total brainfart and didn't now how to react. Then she lets my hand go. She grabs it again and places it even closer. Again, I didn't know how to react, because a side of me remembers them freaking out from my first time there.
Has anyone been to a place you thought was legit and turned out it was your normal MP? I am sure some MPs may be afraid of cops, etc, etc. But, maybe once they "know" you they do extras? The other concern is, what if I make that move and guide her hand to Junior, and she freaks out?
Thanks...
in order to get better access to a muscle to massage it.
Are you sure that this wasn't the case here?
Otherwise, I am as perplexed as you are.
You have to decide whether or not you want to pursue something beyond the massage. If so, then the next time this happens, look at her face and smile. If she smiles back, then say something like: "Are you interested in doing extras?" If you get a nod, then you are all set.
If she turns away or shakes her head, then this will remain a bit of a mystery.
By the way, did you have a boner while this was going on?
Are you sure that this wasn't the case here?
Otherwise, I am as perplexed as you are.
You have to decide whether or not you want to pursue something beyond the massage. If so, then the next time this happens, look at her face and smile. If she smiles back, then say something like: "Are you interested in doing extras?" If you get a nod, then you are all set.
If she turns away or shakes her head, then this will remain a bit of a mystery.
By the way, did you have a boner while this was going on?
Go to a place that offers body scrub. When you are on the body scrub table... personally when they begin I always ask when they reach for the scrub brush if they could not use it and just use their bare hands. I ask because it feels so much better. When on the table and she has you turn over and you are on your back.. if she puts a tiny towel just covering your privates then after she is soaping you look at her and with your hand slowly pull the towel to the side and whisper "it's okay." If she allows the towel to stay off let her continue to soap you and when she gets near your privates calmly look into her eyes and very gently touch her wrist which is soaping you near your dick and gently guide it onto your dick and give a relaxed subtle smile and say "it's okay."
Usually they will massage and clean you there briefly. Don't expect a full HJ there. You are just sending a message that when you get to the room you would like extras. However if she starts massaging your privates with her soapy hands then definitely enjoy but save yourself for the table. It's not private enough for a full throttle HJ then ending.
If she responds negatively then softly say "I'm very sorry." She won't freak out. You are naked in front of her. She knows what people expect regardless of if she is willing to do it or not. Stop paying good money if you are looking for at least a happy ending and not getting it because you are too nervous. Stay with the AMP's. Massage Envy is not a Happy Ending type place. Stick with the body scrub then massage places. Those are extras central. Just be more courageous. If they freak out calmly say "I'm sorry Ms."
Once you get to the table enjoy the massage and since she knows you are looking for more she may at some point without you asking start to touch your privates and you won't even have to ask. If not then when you are eventually on your back and you feel enough courage again touch her wrist and gently guide her hand to your privates and say "please." After that go with the flo. If she starts to massage you down there then once again enjoy. Before you know it you'll be an old pro and you'll have the knowledge and confidence to ask for even more extras. For now just focus on the first step which is your first MP HJ.
Another advanced tip is as she is stroking you if she is close enough gently hold her arm with your hand and then slowly move your hand and touch her breast over her shirt. If she allows this then feel her breast. An even more advanced tip is after that take your hand and creep your fingers under her shirt and if she does not pull away and allows you to do this then creep your fingers under her shirt and move your hand under her bra and hold her boob in your hand as she strokes.
If you have never had a happy ending please let us know when you cross over. Once you are a regular and they recognize you be assured you will not have to ask for a HJ. They will already know you're cool and initiate. Beyond an HJ is something you'll have to learn how to try to make happen.
Usually they will massage and clean you there briefly. Don't expect a full HJ there. You are just sending a message that when you get to the room you would like extras. However if she starts massaging your privates with her soapy hands then definitely enjoy but save yourself for the table. It's not private enough for a full throttle HJ then ending.
If she responds negatively then softly say "I'm very sorry." She won't freak out. You are naked in front of her. She knows what people expect regardless of if she is willing to do it or not. Stop paying good money if you are looking for at least a happy ending and not getting it because you are too nervous. Stay with the AMP's. Massage Envy is not a Happy Ending type place. Stick with the body scrub then massage places. Those are extras central. Just be more courageous. If they freak out calmly say "I'm sorry Ms."
Once you get to the table enjoy the massage and since she knows you are looking for more she may at some point without you asking start to touch your privates and you won't even have to ask. If not then when you are eventually on your back and you feel enough courage again touch her wrist and gently guide her hand to your privates and say "please." After that go with the flo. If she starts to massage you down there then once again enjoy. Before you know it you'll be an old pro and you'll have the knowledge and confidence to ask for even more extras. For now just focus on the first step which is your first MP HJ.
Another advanced tip is as she is stroking you if she is close enough gently hold her arm with your hand and then slowly move your hand and touch her breast over her shirt. If she allows this then feel her breast. An even more advanced tip is after that take your hand and creep your fingers under her shirt and if she does not pull away and allows you to do this then creep your fingers under her shirt and move your hand under her bra and hold her boob in your hand as she strokes.
If you have never had a happy ending please let us know when you cross over. Once you are a regular and they recognize you be assured you will not have to ask for a HJ. They will already know you're cool and initiate. Beyond an HJ is something you'll have to learn how to try to make happen.
And remember, a big smile is your best passport; well that and a wad of bills.
Yes-Be Happy-Be Friendly-Be Enthusiastic-Be Polite-Smile a Lot-Don't Be Obnoxious-Have Tip Money all ready stashed in a shoe or your pants pocket back in the massage room so you don't have to fumble for and thru a wallet! If it is the right kind of AMP a tip that is at least double the hourly fee will generally work wonders! (I suggest that if the hourly rate is $80-Add $150 or $160 for the tip for Full Service). It works !
I've been through this dance before. She doesn't want to risk entrapment by offering a HE, so she puts your hand down there to allow you to stroke yourself. If you do so, she knows your not LE and will offer to finish you and suggest a tip.