So, I'm looking for a longer term real GFE like experience.  Basically, a provider I can pay to spend time with, but not have sex with right away.  Someone I can relate with over the longer term.

Then at some point, if she honestly feels like taking the next step, we go down that route.  I'm looking for more kisses and hugs than sex.  Intimacy without necessarily intercourse.

Looking really for openness and honesty.  I want to be able to treat each other like people.  More like a mistress than an escort, I guess.

Does such a provider exist?

She's called a girlfriend.

Cata,  
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I would hope you realize that the women here on TER are professional companions.  After they have taken your money and given you that "real" GFE experience, they go home to their real life SO and make "real" life love.  Not to gross you out, but the reality is after this "real" GFE experience is provided to you, she may likely provide a "real" PSE experience to another guy or guys later that day.  These TER ladies are great at what they do, and most are very nice women personality wise to hang out with, but you are setting yourself up for a fall.  You want a "real" relationship, then go to a web site that has women who are also looking for a "real" relationship.  Just my opinion.

Thanks for you honest response.  It was helpful.

I'm married and have a demanding job time wise.   I was hoping to short cut the time commitment that a girlfriend brings.  Maybe not possible

And I have monthly arrangements available and am very discreet and can offer exclusivity. I don't think it is impossible what you are seeking, but you would have to open and just as willing as the lady involved for it to be beneficial.

There are plenty of providers here that would be happy to kiss and cuddle and pretend to be your mistress for your allotted time, but the sugar daddy/sugar baby route is built more around establishing comfort and chemistry first, before engaging in more intimate activities.

Though the suggestions for girlfriend/sugar babies/ etc aren't crazy, I think most are suggesting those options because they're not exposed to the type of woman who is in this "hobby", true to themselves, and emotionally open. It's difficult and rare...

Anyhoo, I do hope you find what you're looking for.

Nora

actually it is possible!
I have few friends that I see regularly and we both know where to stand up and we are ok with that. We both benefit in our own ways. No drama, no issues, no commitment, all fun!
 

i guess.. i have few boyfriends
we all happy! haha
 

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Courtesans in Europe during the nineteenth and early twentieth century worked this way. They entertained regularly and some had notoriety. But the world became to fast for this type of lifestyle after the Great War.

Anyone interested in this type of MacGuffin might try to book a favorite PV provider on a regular basis. Eventually she will get comfortable and might open the menu. This will sort of approximate the courtesan experience: kissing and flirting that eventually leads, or might lead to full service.

First you'll have to find the right PV provider where there's chemistry.

oh YES!!!!  
 

I hope you get it.
please fill out the form on my website...I screen everyone no matter what engagement, date or arrangement.  

Have a good nite.
Cata

Have you tried it and had luck?  

I've tried that and SeekingArrangements.com.  I only found one actual real life person on the site.

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You just have to be persistent and when you finally start chatting, be very up front about what you are looking for.  

Nothing like a cute 23yo college student on your arm at Maryland LIVE that you can take back to your placed for 1/3rd the cost of a pro, for an overnight..

I don't have a so because I choose my freedom.
My work life is also my date life.
I so much favor ltr relationships and doing extended dates.
I also enjoy the hour behind closed doors.. Hey, variety is the spice of life.

You can find whatever you're looking for here. Some things may take longer than others, but ..you're an adult. You know what will make you happy.
xo