Until last month I had only dabbled in P4P a few times on BP and left wholly unsatisfied with those encounters.  A Google search actually led me to TER and in less than a month I have visited with three amazing local women from TER.  I had a visit with a local provider today that highly recommended some other ladies and was wondering how common that is?  They're her competition so why would she be steering me in someone else's direction?  Does that mean she didn't like me so she want me to visit other people?  I really liked her alot and want to see her again and again but I don't want to look like an idiot if she hated me.

I did look up the ladies that she mentioned and will probably see them at some point too.  This lady not only has great taste in women but she really dialed into my preferences in a  short amount of time.  Pardon me for the newb questions but who knew everything early?

I always reccomend ladies that I know they may be a good match for you.
Im sure other ladies mention my name as well. No need for jelaousy, we love to share. 💋

That's pretty dern cool of her, though.

are friends with other ladies in this in this world. They are also smart enough to know that you are not going to just see them and no one else. Therefore, if your going to see other ladies, why not recommend that you go to see their friends. Besides, if they recommend their friend and you like her, then it strengthens the chance for you to come back and see them.

Also, as your around for a minute, you will find that while many ladies have friends in this world, they also have ladies that they do not like. If your new and a group of ladies can keep you in their circle, the chance of someone saying anything negative about them goes way down. I am not saying that is what happened here, but these ladies are not stupid.

providers who make recommendations, especially for more then one "friend" may also be getting a booking fee? She can then make a buck without doing any work aside from sending you to the location. Yes, there is usually a motive.

and as a practical matter, every time a provider "verifies" or "Okays" you on Date-Check or P411 or whitelists you here on TER, they are in fact recommending you to other providers. As a business matter, recommending you to friends gets friends recommended back in return - a good quid pro quo. It almost certainly has nothing to do with whether she "liked you" or not; I'm guessing from Cayden's post that she did... :

Some people will never believe that providers can do anything altruistic-- everything must be about money.

Of course, that says much more about them than you.

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i don't really understand why the need to post such negative comments. I am pretty sure some ladies don't know I recommended them some they do (and never got a cut either). But I do learn quick about the likes and dislikes of new friends and who can be a good match for them.  
I do also prefer to see gentlemen that already meet with well known providers and those special ladies that I already know. Why? well, because that tells me that the gentleman likes discretion, doesn't mind to get screened and it's truthful. Makes me feel more safe.  

As far as the gentleman, its better for you to see well review ladies and those that know each other. Makes everything easier for YOU. On the other hand you know that the ladies are discreet, reliable, good service,  and you are not going to encounter with bait and switch or.... worst.  

MasterZ is right... the concept of exclusivity does not exist in this world! Since you already have terrible experiences with bp and other sources, why not try new things with well know providers that definitely will offer the service that you deserved?

 

 


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When i first started in the hobby I very nice lady who is now under the radar recommended me 5 different ladies who I have seen 4 of and have yet to see her. We still correspond and hopefully one day we will meet.  Thank you M you have been wonderful

How long does it usually take to have a review approved?  I think the other two were on the same day too. I guess I'm luckier than I thought.
I feel foolish that I didn't just ask you but am relieved that you just want me to have a good time in this hobby.  Thank you for your recommendations.  i know they came from a good place.

I have been given recommendations several times without asking. In conversations, a lady will ask "Have you met so and so?", and if I say no, they often say "oh she is beautiful" or "she is really a cool person, you should meet her".

I have never asked another lady for a recommendation of who else to see. That would seem really awkward.

There are so many men out there. I don't see anyone as competition. There are so many providers around as well. I can't do anything to stop a client from NOT seeing others, so I figure why not help them out. Plus I consider myself Pro-Provider. Meaning I want and like to help the other ladies out. If I had it my way, everyone would be busy!

And yes I mention her but I also mention other ladies that I know the guys will like. So I am not just recommending personal friends. And I don't ask for or expect a booking fee. I have never heard of such a thing to be honest and I would not think I was deserving of one just because I said " see Sally".

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I am interested to know how providers get to know other providers if not through doubles or meet-n-greet.  Do you only recommend woman you personally know and have met? If not what criteria do you use to recommend another provider? Reliable client recommendations?