Every few years I have to scratch my submissive itch, and find a sensual Domme Lady ( nothing too crazy or painful) to use me. Extended T&D session, strap on, humiliation, face sitting, foot worship. Day times,afternoons work best. Any suggestions or ladies that would be interested please let me know

I suggest Andrea Adams (formerly Tigress).  She's a super kinky GFE provider and will do almost any BDSM activity you desire.  I've seen her a few times and she is wonderful.  At one time she had an incall location in a rural part of Montgomery Co, but normally works out of Northern VA.