The current GF was the one who said, "oh, isn't that girl cute," at a Thai restaurant, speaking of a hottie waitress. That led to, during sex, fantasies of threesomes. That led to research, led to invites, led to our first threesome.... Mmmmmm...good.....
The girl I met recently works at a BIG BOX tech/media store I go to frequently. I met her, searched her out every time I went there, flirting mercilessly. When I got some positive feedback, I took my laptop in for a check up and "accidentally" let her see pics of my gf in a tight outfit. Oops...my "mistake."
She commented how cute she was. I played it cagey, saying I though she, the gf, would think she, the employee, was cute, too. A few visits later, I told her that my gf and I had done threesomes with other women. Positive feedback, again! A visit later, the suggestion she join us. Rebuffed, but countered with NSA threesome being cool!
The moral of this tale? Long-term planning, patience, perseverance, but most importantly, PERVERSITY, will pay off! LOL