It's been a long time since I've seen someone, and I used to be a regular. I have caught up on past debts and am now sailing free and clear. Looking to to celebrate my birthday in April in style when I go to a conference in Anaheim, but all my references have retired or are off the scene. It HAS been ten years after all. Any and all recommendations are gratefully accepted.

what some do see a reputabl lady in EU or UK where we dont screen as much and then ask for reference x

Get a membership in a screening service such as P411 and/or date-check. Book a date(s) with a local provider(s) and have them whitelist you.

Thank you. That's the best advice i've received from this thread.