Money and gifts ‘regulate’ relationships and instill spoken or silent agreements between persons.
Men of any age and any appearance can date extraordinarily beautiful women of any age and background, if they possess enough wealth. A beauty who seeks to be spoiled with luxury will provide her company and body in exchange for goods. She enters a ‘silent agreement’ regulated by gifts, commodities and social status she will receive over time. She is not labeled as an ‘Escort’, a ‘Whore’ or a ‘Prostitute’ by others, normally. Instead she experiences a social and an economic upgrade. Gifts stimulate bonding to a person. Seeking luxury a women may develop appreciation for her gifting partner and confuse it with love. For other beautiful women affluent men help them to survive or provide more financial stability. Like meeting an Escort, both, the man and the lady, enter an arrangement, whereby they expect a ‘win-win-situation’. Yet, convention strictly distinguishes between ‘silent private arrangements’ and openly expressed financial arrangements, as ‘Escort services’.
Such double standards preserve a negative image of these services and the hypocrisy of some orthodox conservatives
Work in other industries and often cloak themselves in disguise as Professionals with ethics.
Ha.
hobby friends call me a slut.
I think this is an interesting and insightful observation. I never gave it much thought before, but I tend to agree with you. Negative stereotypes increase as you move down the economic ladder, while high end "relationships" that are essentially just a more pricey variation on the hiring of an escort often get a more favorable view by society.
I'm just considered a sex addict.
It is what it is.
I'm not a whore. I'm a companion, a high end one...
Ha.
that the addiction you have is curable? I don't think mine is, and I know for sure Lopaw's isn't!
but lately, I have been feeling like an ATM machine.
Another point is an escort can have many atm machines. And sometime retire with just one for a real relationship. The others who've lost their atf have to find new part-time partners to donate and gift to.
I found my ATF at the ATM.
there. Its easy for the spending to spin out of control when you meet a girl you really connect with. Like with any hobby, you have to put yourself on a budget so you don't find yourself prioritizing pussy over other necessities. You don't want to miss an electric bill and find yourself watching TV in the dark.
Yes I am whore!!
Hope I can run for elections... hope I get some votes??
CC
I have often said the same thing to people.... Having been a "kept" woman and and an out and out hooker, for me hooker is the more honorable because it is honest and both parties understand and agree on the situation going in. In a sugar Daddy type situation the poor mans heart is being manipulated which makes him wayyy too vulnerable and I don't think it is fair to him...! I am PROUD of being a whore and an honest and CARING woman!
" In a sugar Daddy type situation the poor mans heart is being manipulated which makes him wayyy too vulnerable and I don't think it is fair to him"
I don't know about that.Any one knowingly entering into a sugar momma/daddy arrangement has to know what is expected. How could it not be understood that is is really a business deal where both sides get what they want and need? I was a sugar momma for awhile and went in with eyes wide open. I can't imagine anyone signing up with a SB and expecting love. That's a disaster waiting to happen.
I fully agree. Have seen it all in different industries. Eroticism and sexual fantasies and needs regulate relations within institutions, subconsciously to a great degree.
When you get flaked on and sitting in a hotel room all alone, you start thinking:
Hotel room $2502hr outcall min $1000
Greek upcharge $200
Parking $20 You have to ask yourself, Am I an ATM machine
It's not about whether i'm a hooker, a whore, an upscale companion or just one horny bitch, it's the tone the person uses when calling me one of those.
Some ass hat called me a milf at the poker table the other night, i verbally ripped him a new arsehole, not because he called me a milf but because the tone he used was insulting. I agree with Lopaw, regardless of any relationship, whether it be in the 'real' world or the industry or by arrangement, it all comes down to maturity, honesty and emotional stability. If you have issues in any of those areas then it doesn't matter what relationship you enter into, it's going to be a sink or swim situtationI'm not sure what your point is actually. As others have assumed, it seems you are just talking about the difference between a sugar baby and an escort. If on the other hand you are talking about relationships generally, then I think that's a pretty limited and jaded world view. Just because I buy a girlfriend a gift, that no more makes her a hooker and me a John than buying your kid a birthday present would. There are a myriad of things other than money and material goods in the human experience that bond people together.
Maybe you need to take step back from your life and reassess your own reality and how it may differ significantly from that of others. Just my two cents.Men of any age and any appearance can date extraordinarily beautiful women of any age and background, if they possess enough wealth. A beauty who seeks to be spoiled with luxury will provide her company and body in exchange for goods. She enters a ‘silent agreement’ regulated by gifts, commodities and social status she will receive over time. She is not labeled as an ‘Escort’, a ‘Whore’ or a ‘Prostitute’ by others, normally. Instead she experiences a social and an economic upgrade. Gifts stimulate bonding to a person. Seeking luxury a women may develop appreciation for her gifting partner and confuse it with love. For other beautiful women affluent men help them to survive or provide more financial stability. Like meeting an Escort, both, the man and the lady, enter an arrangement, whereby they expect a ‘win-win-situation’. Yet, convention strictly distinguishes between ‘silent private arrangements’ and openly expressed financial arrangements, as ‘Escort services’.
Such double standards preserve a negative image of these services and the hypocrisy of some orthodox conservatives.
doesn't validate parking? You still have to pay $20 to park your car after you are already paying $200 extra to park your dick in her ass? That's adding insult to injury in my book!!!
And from my experience, indeed you are a caring woman. Sexy as well. xo
and denial does the rest IM afraid.....just a very blurry area, I Prefer the honest approach and Iwear my scarlet letter proudly!
Any provider worth her salt should know that as long as you do your part and provide the agreed upon donation, that it is her job to make you "forget it was a service" every time IMHO!
I don't care what word is used. I love what i do, do what I love. What you want to call it makes absolutely no difference to me.
I do have trouble with the women who pull heart strings when they have no interest, hoping to get more $$$...... that is not ok with me. Call me an escort, a whore, a slut...... whatever you want. I'll answer to all. As someone else said though, it's the tone that can get objectionable. But, I'll freely admit it, in the play time, you can be as degrading as you want. It's actually a big turn on to me. Go figure