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Re: Repeat vs New
BigPeterJohnson 39 Reviews 862 reads
posted
1 / 10

great thread happening over on general discussion.

what makes you want to repeat with a lady, rather than see a new one?  what makes you want to see new women?

i happen think that here in los angeles we are infinitely blessed with some of the finest women in this endeavor, not only for looks, but in genuine human compassion.  that's one reason i keep seeing new friends; so many wonderful people to share experiences with.  and i love hamburger and fries, but i don't want to eat that every day.

but on the other hand i have several ladies that i have seen more than a few times (one for over 4 years).  and to be honest, to me it's not a matter of listing skills or even attitude that keeps me coming back;  it's more like saying "why do you keep going back to those same old friends all the time?"  as individual people, they are each interesting, and i like to keep in touch on several levels with them all.

gents:  what's your ratio of new women versus repeats.  what makes you want to repeat with a lady?  what makes you want to try a new girl?

also; ladies: what do you do to keep things interesting for your repeat clients

OingeBoinge 168 Reviews 445 reads
posted
2 / 10

In the past my focus was more in seeing different women.  Part of that was that I was traveling around more.  Over the past couple of years my focus has slowly changed more sticking with certain ones more.  Yeah, I still see different women, but there are five that I have more sticked with.  It's a combination of things.  I have a preference for lower volume UTR providers who have regular jobs and do this on the side.  They are just more into it.  It is not a chore for them.  Nothing better than getting up when your hour is up and be starting to get dressed, then hearing a sexy female voice on the bed say, "want to go again"?

Oh and dude, talking about that thread on perks, got one today that most guys wish for and was unexpected but appreciated.  But I will PM you since I don't think I want to open it on the board where people might not believe me.  There are perks to treating a lady right and being a good friend.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 428 reads
posted
3 / 10

of 3-4 women that I see regularly.  "Regularly" for me is 2-4 times per month.  I usually have a CF that I see more than the other regulars, often twice a week for a month  or two.  In addition, to keep things fresh, I see one new girl each week.  Sometimes, if I really like a new one, I will repeat and may even add her to the regulars group.  The exception is Las Vegas, because many times the girls are only visiting for a few weeks and are not there the next month when I go.  I also have a group of touring girls that I see sporadically based on when they are in SoCal.  This is the long-term group, some going back four years.  The longer I see a particular provider, our relationship evolves into one of friends with benefits, with one of the benefits being a donation for her, and time off tee clock for social outings for me.  It takes on a completely different style than a normal provider/customer relationship as the friendship develops.

So to answer your question, I would say the ratio to of new to repeats is about 50/50 in terms of number of providers, but since I usually book more than an hour with my regulars, the ratio of new to repeats in terms of hobby hours would be about 20/80.

When I decide to repeat, it is because there was a good connection with the provider.  It has little to do with skills and more to do with playfulness and personality.  If skills are weak, I can always teach them, but if personality is lacking, there is nothing I can do to make it more fun.  

I mainly try new girls because of attrition.  I see mostly Asian girls, and many don't stay in one city too long, so I like to have replacements in the wings to pick from when a regular goes to another city or back to their home country.

Nightfalle 14 Reviews 357 reads
posted
4 / 10

I usually find myself repeating and then mixing in a new one as my interest in a regular fades.  Repeating for me is more about energy and great attitude than how she looks.  I stayed with one girl for a year after she put on 30 pounds, but dropped a stunning girl after 2 mediocre sessions.  

I usually have 2-3 women I see regularly (once a month at least).  I usually do 4 hour dates so connection and energy is more important than when you only see someone for an hour or two.  

Right now I'm pretty focused on just 2 girls and will stick with them as long as they keep bringing the energy and make me feel better than I did when I arrived

J0e_Fella 34 Reviews 288 reads
posted
5 / 10

aside the chemistry attraction, must be reliable, accessible to outcall or a clean cosy private incall. A mind-blowing talented swallowing follow with liquor, simple tasty foods, a couple smokes and a witty conversation oughta do it for me.   :-)

Trainman51 64 Reviews 335 reads
posted
6 / 10

I do almost exclusively over nights (unless it is someone new) more than once a week on average.
In addition, I like to travel and always take someone with me -- from short two night trips up to two week long international trips.
As a result, I rarely see someone new (maybe once or twice a year) and only when one of my regular friends drops out of the picture for some reason. Whenever I see someone new, it is with the hope that a long term relationship may develop.
I personally find having a long term friendship with close friends you are compatible with (and can travel with) has so many benefits that I have little interest in experiencing the inconsistencies of trying to see someone new all the time.

BigPeterJohnson 39 Reviews 317 reads
posted
7 / 10

i totally agree... whenever i see someone new it's with an eye towards establishing a longer relationship.  tho i see lots of new people, it's not slam bam thank you maam as much as auditions for perhaps one of my revolving cadre of friends that i like to enjoy life with.

with the exception of touring ladies, tho if i find a touring lady i like i will be sure to try to see her every time she's in my town.

twelvestringguitar 287 reads
posted
8 / 10

I have split 50/50. But its still more fun to meet someone new, and more relaxed to be with someone you trust and know.

PLEASURE7 5 Reviews 360 reads
posted
9 / 10

I would love  to repeat if everything is going right and I also like to try new girls,but this happen to me twice already,I have learn over the years how to control my ejaculation to the point that I could  last as long as I want to and the girls don't like that,in couple of time different girls that I saw twice before,perform very poorly the third time to discourage me from coming back.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 150 reads
posted
10 / 10

tipping, they usually don't mind the extra work if you can hold it longer.  Just my own experience.

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