Hi all,  

I'm a "pay-to-play virgin" in LA who's lurked TER for a while but never pulled the trigger. Well it's been a dry spell for me lately and I'm ready to pull the trigger on finding myself a provider for the first time--but I'm nervous about the usual issues of safety, lack of ability to provide references, and especially LE. The latter being why I've never gone through with a booking in the past.

So maybe a kind soul can guide me through some recommendations. I am a well-spoken, respectful, and attractive 30 y/o Caucasian gentleman interested mostly in Asian women, ideally with a softer touch, more GFE than all-business to put me at ease, starting simple (massage + HE) or diving right in. It's a little overwhelming looking through the ads at all the great options here! I'm wondering how others have started out, especially those a little nervous like me, and if anyone has any recommendations where and with whom to begin.  

Thanks for entertaining my curiosities and lending a helping hand!*

-GG

*no pun intended

The self help center is located in the upper right corner near the life preserver and the newbie board is in the general boards drop down. For providers check out the LA regional ad board. Finally get VIP so you can read the entire reviews. Good luck, everyone was a newbie once.

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Thanks, SB. I appreciate the well-wishes.

Although she mainly stays in the Bay Area, Xarliah-147078. does visit So Cal every once in a while and sounds like a lady you are looking for.

I would recommend starting with the independent Asian girls and go off the reviews. To get into the k-girl scene will just be too tough. Find a provider you like and ask if they're newbie friendly. Other than that, have fun.