Fellow Hobbyists,
What makes you immediately skip a provider and move on when searching? What are the things that make you go "F*** that" and write off the provider? No judgement here, just curiosity about what inexplicable or justified personal peeves we have...

I'll start with my pet peeves, in descending order of importance:

1. Asking for my photo or ethnicity.
2. No pics. Especially the ones with only password protected pics.
3. Way over my budget.
4. Names like Lovely XYZ, Hot ABC, SexyDD4U. I even avoid ladies with just first names. Somehow a lady without a proper first and last name (even if it fake), just does not fit wel

I'll keep it simple:

1) Location, Location, Location
2) Rates in respect to type of session
3) fantasies provided
4) Overly business attitude

1) she uses an excessive amount of "gentlemen" or other male references in her ad/website (huge pet peeve & turn off)

2) she doesn't see women (why waste my time?)

3) her rates are way too high

4) she offers only outcall

T.S. (Not my cup of tea.)
2.  No reviews.
3.  Location.
4.  Locations....(i.e. does she have ads indicating she is in 5 cities at the same time or did she just appear and a google search indicates she has not appeared anywhere else.)
5.  If on BP a variety of factors based partly on instinct before I even bother checking for reviews.
6.  Outcall only unless I already have a place lined up.
7.  Rates.
8.  No pics of her and/or asking for a pic of me.

1) Asking for a pic of me.  If she's a professional, it shouldn't matter if I am a hunchbacked dwarf.  My money is still green (except for the Benjamins).  Besides, I don't want to be on her facebook page.

2)  No pricing information - if she doesn't have any reviews, then pricing has to be in the ad or I won't bother.

3)  Has to have her own incall.  I won't do outcall with a provider on the first date, nor will I meet her at a hotel.  Could be an LE sting.

...email me for my rate. I don't even bother looking at the photos.  

Who are you to say it shouldn't matter to us - the provider enforcement division?  

To me it does matter (only my opinion so don't bite back)!!  I'm not doing this to get "Traumatized", have nightmares and feel bad about myself.  Not all money is good money;-((

I've never required a gentleman to send a pic, but if he looked like the hunchbacked dwarf or grossed me out... I'd have to pass.

That's actually happened twice, we met, chatted a few minutes, and I could taste the throw up coming up in my mouth both times.  I very nicely told them that I was sorry, I just wasn't feeling it and... returned the envelope.  One gentleman appreciated my honesty and told me that I wasn't the first provider that didn't feel it with him and returned the envelope.  He admitted that it had happened a couple of times.  

The second guy was physically attractive but arrogant and made it very clear he had no respect for woman - he was a complete dick and that just doesn't work for me.

 

 

-- Modified on 11/13/2015 10:32:36 PM

hi there

good tips to read.

alley

xo

man, i just took a chance recently & booked time with a lady who had stellar reviews but no pictures on line.  

it was one of the best sessions i ever had and we both agreed to many more in the future.

so no pics is not a deal breaker.  to me, the overall indication of reviews is.  

also is incall available

and lie saying that thus is their current pic. But, when you google images it's the same pic from 2-3 years ago.

Plus, look!

No way!

Personally I think it's mean and unprofessional to send some guy on his way because of how he looks.  

It seems like the hunchback dwarf clients need our acceptance more than any of them.  

I have no racial preferences, and handicapped or disabled people are welcome here.

I think I got my first review in 2008. There are so many ladies that haven't changed their photos since then in San Diego, I really can't believe it. And the photos they used are like cell phone selfie's in the first place, LOL.

Any handles with the term "cash" or $ in them. That just screams ghetto street girl to me...

It's two questions.  What attracts me to a provider's ad, and makes me want to know more?

The pictures are what draw my eye to her ad, and they need to be professionally done; no selfies.

Then I address her location and if she's within my budget.

Next, reviews. Need plenty of good reviews, and by reviewers I'm familiar with; not personally of course, but known on the various hobby boards. If pictures are said to not be real or accurate, then it's over. I'm on the lookout for someone else

if a girl won't spring for professional pix, she's not serious about this

Or reference to a deposit for multi hour appointment.

I love selfies! They seem so real and raw and I might just catch a glimpse of the real her...

1. If she's down with Anal (just turns me off IDK why)
2. If she smokes
3. If she is a he or used to be a he
4. No pics
5. Ugly pics (as unattractive as I am - I can't 'date' a bush-pig)
6. Over 50 reviews (those kind of numbers scare me a little TBH)  

What will make me stop on a profile every time?
1. If she has the X factor (determined by me instantly becoming uncontrollably 'chubbed-up')
2. If her pics are unbelievably smoking hot - I pay to experience women that would normally be unattainable to me IRL.
3. I am tremendously turned on by smoking hot 'newbies' (teaching her to LOVE her new profession)

With no pics - it helps when a brother gives you the 'brick house' thumbs up  

Selfies are better than professional pictures. From selfies, you can tell how she lookes. Professional pictures are always photoshoped and most time are misleading and useless.

For one thing with a selfie there will not have been a ton of photoshop done.  Some of my favorite providers over the years have used selfies.  I would NOT agree that it is an indication she is not serious.  It can be an indication that she had a regular job and just does this part time on the side.  You really have to go by the reviews.  Ladies that do this part time on the side can often be some of the best.  For one thing, they are not going to get so burned out on this.  Often it might be the only sex she gets and they can often be more into it that ladies that do this full time.  It shows in how horny they are, ready to go for seconds.  There are certain aspects of a strong O that are very hard to fake.  

However, I do agree that professional photos are on average better for business.  Sometimes providers sell themselves short in the looks department by not getting those professionally done photos.  I have even pointed this out to providers on occasion who were trying to pick up extra business.  

Sometimes there is nothing better than a follow up session with a favorite provider who hasn't gotten any for a week or more!

5) intentional $ub$tution of letter "s", using way too many ASCII characters, mixing uppercase and lowercase letters in a single sentence.  

6) "some" tattoos are a turn off for me, while some are a turn on...

7) gross misuse of homonyms.  

There eye sei mo'?

Well said Freya.  I knew there would be a REAL professional chiming in on this one.  

I agree with you 100%.  Bad attitude or poor hygiene should be the only reasons to refuse service, but if the guy is clean and respectful, he can't help how he was born.  That is his parent's doing and he should not be penalized because they put the wrong genes together.

believe me, she deserves the metaphor!!

if a lady posts too often on the ads board...

i don't know why, but when i see the same girls' ads over and over i tend to mentally block them out... a very subconscious thing

But the bottom line and when it's all said and done, if it ain't there, then it ain't there. Regardless of looks or attitude some can't fake fake. I would love the honesty of someone who I met that just wasn't into it. I mean don't we hate the "Oh papi, yes papi" lines that sound so rehearse. I see the reviews where, the reviewer states "We just didn't click" or "that she looked occupied". We all hear the talk about it's her body, so I get it....

Because what's the use's? That's a tough curtain to open. It's tough to see anyone if the mamasan doesn't know you or you haven't seen one of their girls before. I use to do the k-Girl scene in SM and WLA, but now forget about, I've called, send references and still no return calls no nada...They've become way too careful...but whatcha gonna do?
Also price,I've budgeted myself X amount, if I can't pay, I don't play
No pics, also or those VIP membership to access pictures will send me to skip the a

A few things make me move on to the next ad...just not my thing...

1)  mentions of tantra or other forms of sensual education
2) too low of a price point, specials are not always a good thing.
3) too wordy...i have a short attention span.  Seven paragraphs are too many to read

Women who don't show their face at all in pics.  

It just turns me off. I don't mind if it's blurred some but without any idea of how she looks, hard to date her. Same goes for those who completely blur their face.