Help me with Blondie moments ......AS   English    my second Language  maybe my third .. IoI

When you get  a response to a  reference .

 Please read   this  .........     "He is safe to see. I  Don't really remember him, sorry
take care"

what that means? ........

I am not complaining but wondering  
maybe ..
Am i MISSING something
GRAZIE  
CC

I would consider her response to be a Non-Sequitur.

Meaning it's contradictory and makes No Sense!

Kinda a put down for the guy, if she does not remember him.. Que No?

She has a record of seeing him,but cannot remember anything about him or his visit. Sort of neutral,nothing positive or negative.

 

 
I don't think it's a put-down at all. If it's someone she met only once and it was several months ago, then she might need him to contact her & remind her about when & where they met; and what they talked about or anything memorable that happened during their appointment.  

 

But it's never a knock on a guy if a provider doesn't instantly recall him.. not all ladies keep notes. If a reference can't verify you, just send her a message & give her a few details.... and I'm willing to bet it'll come right back.

but have record .... do not means that  She saw him
need check further or  I pass
4 Ladies more  that aII contact do not remember him.