i have a few, one of which i recently got over.
i used to (and actually still do) have a visceral negative reaction to large tattoos. a small one here or there is not bad, but i hate big tapestries that look like robert williams' psyche threw up on a woman's body. but recently i started chatting with a lady on the boards here, and her profile mentions she had many tattoos, my conversations with her were very beguiling and intriguing. i bit the bullet and booked some time with her, and she was fantastic. seen her twice since then and will see her as many times as my wallet allows, she is so great in doing exactly what turns me on. the moral of that story is, i guess, don't let a little thing like physical appearance get in the way of a good time. however, there's another young lady i find attractive except: she doesn't shave her armpits, which is a total turn off to me. not sure if i can bite that particular bullet. anybody else have a physical deal breaker?I'm totally into the petite spinners, especially when they are 26 and under.
I recently met a phenomenal young lady. Beautiful face, absolutely wonderful body and socially polished. She isn't around much, but I'm totally looking forward to seeing her again.No smiles. Girl's gotta smile. I see these girl's to forget about my lousy job, I don't need any extra negative energy if they're unhappy about theirs.
1. Large facial warts
2. Green teeth
3. A penis.
and tbh my reaction is strictly visceral, i have no intellectual bias against body art. it just gives me great great pause, and takes me out of the sexy mode.
but as i say, to each their own, have at it! i'm sure i'm missing out on some great times.
Hated them at 1st. But, after seeing several after the famous "amsterdman" who used to host in LA many years ago.
I love them. Too me they are alot more wilder in the sac!
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agree. multiple tattoos aren't really my thing when done spotty in positions on the body. done as a whole piece a women can look incredible sexy. Had hesitation with Amsterdam, then meet her for a night of fun and her tats turned out to be very erotic for me.
I'm sure you enjoy going to art galleries. Think of it as an art gallery you can fondle.
but as i say, to each their own, have at it! i'm sure i'm missing out on some great times.
Your post sounds like the story of my life :P
i used to (and actually still do) have a visceral negative reaction to large tattoos. a small one here or there is not bad, but i hate big tapestries that look like robert williams' psyche threw up on a woman's body.
but recently i started chatting with a lady on the boards here, and her profile mentions she had many tattoos, my conversations with her were very beguiling and intriguing. i bit the bullet and booked some time with her, and she was fantastic. seen her twice since then and will see her as many times as my wallet allows, she is so great in doing exactly what turns me on.
the moral of that story is, i guess, don't let a little thing like physical appearance get in the way of a good time.
however, there's another young lady i find attractive except: she doesn't shave her armpits, which is a total turn off to me. not sure if i can bite that particular bullet.
anybody else have a physical deal breaker?
Love to hear about guys' deal breakers. I've popped a few "tattoo" cherries with some gentleman who haven't been with a woman with body art. I've had nothing but compliments and very pleasantly surprised grins when I disrobe to reveal my body.
The green teeth comment tho! Eesh!
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I don't like when a hobbyists start off with .. hello baby thats puts me off and then they don't booked or and cancel. Alley-- Modified on 9/17/2016 7:22:47 PM
...Jinx's list. I'll expand "Green teeth" to include "messed up teeth" whether they are extremely crooked, yellow, or otherwise discolored.
I love tats on females FWIW. And honestly while it's amusing to think of physical traits that may be real turn-offs, I hesitate to say "deal breaker" because for me, it's about the overall package.1. Large facial warts
2. Green teeth
3. A penis.
There are probably others, but these are the ones that come to mind at the moment. Being an artist and bohemian as I am, I do not mind or fault another for their forms of self expression like well done body art. I do draw the line at prison made swastikas, but have yet to meet any ladies with that. I get how the nonart world can be intimidated by what is perceived as alternative life, so no beef if you don't like ink. I have just seen some really well done art on ladies and I find it enhances the experience in a visual and artistic sense.
she has a fuller moustache than me or if she is not height and weight proportionate. I know it's not PC to say either of these, but it's my money, so I get to buy what I want.
Turn offs:
1) "Off" scent(s) - could be bad hygiene or too much baby powder or menthol cigarettes. If I notice my nose when we meet its rarely a good sign.2) shaved (if...) it shouldn't be. I myself have several scars on my head. I don't think they'll look good if I were to shave my head. Same feeling for kitties that shouldn't be in the forefront. No more said.
3) belly fat/misleading pix - I love curvy women. All around. If I'm looking at curvy in your ad and show up and see a beer gut, I'm pissed and will leave.
4) Tweaker teeth - missing, blackened, etc
5) being rushed/hurried
6) piercings - no thanks. I'm old school.
7) fake boobs - if they're advertised as real? We have a problem. Hate fake tits.
It seems fake when providers do it too. I'm not a fan of body art, but 'hey baby' is a bigger turn-off. I'd rather you be sincere.