Recently been being ask not to wear heels more often I mean I understand when a man a shorty but other times I kinda feel under dress

depends on the nature of the date.  Most men should be aware of the standard of dress for anyplace they are taking you.  If I am planning a date where an activity has significant walking, I will often suggest that she wear comfortable shoes, but maybe bring a pair of heels for dinner later to a place where most other women would be in heels.  

If he doesn't share what you are going to be doing, then I can certainly understand you being uncomfortable if you are underdressed, but I think there is also a trend towards "business casual" or "smart casual" in ordinary dating.  However, if the guy is wearing a jacket and tie, you should definately be in heels.  Other times, its not so clear.  It depends on what's normal for the destination.  Maybe the best thing is to ask him how he will be dressed.  Then take your clues from that.

I love heels and sexy shoes - I just can't help it...

In an email the other day a provider friend sent me a pic of her new built out closet. She called it a "Lady Cave" and assumed I probably hated it.

My eyes however went straight to what was on those shelves and damn if I wasn't really turned on!!

A very long way of saying I love heels )

Leave those heels on at all times!

Even in the shower!

i pride myself on being the guy who taught one of nyc's top providers to always wear her heels to bed...

if the date involves lots of walking, or sports activity, then wear flats, or low heels, or tennies.

but if you're out to dinner, or staying in, wear those heels proudly, lady!  always look like the high class slut you are!

and i mean that in the most affectionate way possible!

on the wearing of heels to bed.  I got speared once that way many years ago during a violent O during DATY, which left a four-inch gash in my hip.  Now I'm a little gun-, er heel-shy, once we hit the sheets.  For me, leave the heels on the floor, but any other time, I love 'em.

Classic high heels but not cfm ones, please.

when i say heels, sorry, i am assuming everyone else is in my head.

classic pumps, the higher the better, but no mules, no strappy sandals, no cfm, pumps only for me.

Know two friends that really prefer wearing heels.

One ALWAYS dresses elegantly and appropriately for the venue or date we are going on ... for her,, I appreciate/like her wearing heels  because it always fits with situation.

The other friend prefers huge, platform "fuck me" pumps to attract attention to herself, almost regardless of the nature of our "date" ... on numerous occasions, this made me uncomfortable because it draws excessive attention to us in certain circumstances.

APPROPRIATE heels are always welcome, even preferred-

SHIT  are very uncomfortable  LOL
But I accept request  
Common sense makes the class!!
 It All  depends where are u going ...

I rather be natural low key in my sports  clothes  
In my real life..

But  to my favorites clients I accept  the hooker shoes request..Kidding LOL

Fortunately my Favorites  always let me be myself
CC

 

 

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I feel stupid being barefoot for a client as I tiptoe around the room without shoes. Feels more sexy being dressed up. Up to the client but as long as I get to wear heels and in no way am I short or is he,  I just prefer to have covers on my feet ha.

You mean you don't like it when every other guy in the room is looking at you and whispering to himself, "That lucky bastard!"  Nobody knows you're paying unless she has a bar code on the back of her hand.   I find that the attention generated by my date often gets a better table in a more conspicuous location at many upscale establishments.  

With that said, if you're married, please ignore what I said, and continue to go UTR.  We don't want to lose you.

You look damn sexy in those high heels!!!!!   Don't ever change!!!!

To be perfectly honest, More than anything I love barefoot.

Barefoot without the bottom of the foot being clean and soft but so you can tell you've been waking around

Just don't touch her hair brother and you'll come right no matter what kind of shoes she wears

and nothing else when opening the door. Nothing better!

Gosh I miss Su Young. Being greeted in that manner by her will (hopefully) be part of the highlight reel that runs in my head when my time comes.

Emy ain't gonna have any objections with the touching hair thingy. Emy, right?

Lol you are simple lovely!!
And my broken English is contagious Walking or waking?
LOL

Omg them poor heels in the water lol

Depend what position am in lol

LOL callofbootay to funny the name

will you be easier to book?

 
Because I really do love heels...

lol

i am 5'11" barefoot (6'3" in heels and 4 1/2' on my knees) and i never wear flats.

i have been asked to take off my shoes once i answer the door , and they almost always come off once playtime starts.

i doubt many fantasies consist of a woman wearing flats.  lol

lol am hard to book I know I know not my fault am hot

Lol but no...it's totally your fault you're hot. Seems like every time I text you you're going to the gym.

Nothing says "Sexy" like a nice pair of heels.