My girlfriend and I enjoyed a fbsm at our place in Los Feliz a few months ago, looking to get a bit more wild but we'll need some guidance.... Anyone got a good recommendation? She's in fitness and has a pole dancing pole too, which is fun...

...both in my personal life & professionally, with both men and women.

 
I do not switch though; the way I feel about being submissive is similar to the way most men feel about fucking other men.

 
My website has a general list of the most common activities I partake in - but there are very few kinks that I have not explored; I'm also quite familiar with introducing first-timers to the BDSM scene.

You're in good hands with Miss Delaine if you're getting your feet wet (and other body parts) in the BDSM realm.