That have no idea what they do for a living?
I would have been surprised with anything else.
As if any provider with a SO would respond here and expose their private lives. Not only could it lead to nefarious or other shenanigans, but what makes you think it's any of yours or our business? SMH
is that no provider works 24/7, which means they have a private life when not working, which often may include a boyfriend, SD, or husband. Yes, there are providers that are married. I have one touring girl that I see when she is in town that has gotten married since I started seeing her but continues to work now and then after her marriage. All of that is separate fro my relationship with her when she is working, and is none of my business, so I don't ask about it. Ever. And neither should you.
Ha - Yeah I'm daft!
That being said, Say a provider sees 40 clients a month and has a SO that does not know, until they find that "other phone" and patch it all together. Sooner or later it will happen...Then your info becomes at risk... That's what I was asking...
you are overthinking this. I have never heard of a provider who was secretly working behind her SO's back. If the guy can't handle what she does for a living, then he would not be her SO. Forget finding out from the phone, what about her website, CV ads, etc. Sooner or later one of his friends would see an ad or her website and spill the beans. If he doesn't know, it won't last long, and most providers know that.
who have no idea what they do on the side?
What the hell - why not ask? Probably get the same amount of responses - zero. Let's face it - there's a lot of hobbiests with SOs who have no idea what goes on when they're not looking, and I'm sure the same is true of providers. And both parties want to keep it that way, so neither's going to answer.
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Not that I will be mentioning any names here. One of the providers basically wears the pants in the house and if her husband does not like it, well he is free to leave. Maybe he is into living the chuckold life, I don't know and don't care. I have never seen her and don't plan to. She is not my type. The reason I know is, well lets just say some other providers also have big mouths. I didn't ask.
Then there is another couple. He apparently doesn't care. He will even join in if a guy is looking for a man/woman/man session. Also not my cut of tea though....the man/woman/man part that is. That provider I have seen. I know there are many others, but it is not any of my business so I don't ask. But sometimes I am told. Best deal I even got was back in the 1900s. This guy in the military was a swinger before getting married to a Mexican girl from a very strict religious family. She was his first. He wanted to keep swinging so he told her to find a man to swing with. Found her ad in one of the magazines in an adult book store. Saw her photo and figured no way, TGTBT. Though about it for a few days and figured I would write and send a photo of myself. OMG it was legit. It was a bit strange being interviewed by her husband and her. But for the next year when I would travel there, she would come to my hotel for an hour or so of free sex. Unfortunately they eventually relocated. I'm not sure if he made her that deal to be fair or if he was worried what her brothers would do to him if she found out and told them.I do.
I am a lot less likely to be found out though as I hobby 1 or 2 times a month. If I was hitting it 40 times a month with countless communications with potential clients - It wouldn't be if but when..I have four significant others right now that I am seeing regularly, and you are correct, each one doesn't know about the other three. However, I think the way I do it is less complicated than a guy who has a wife or steady girlfriend. Lol
Too funny, my friend.
Now that there are no more M&Gs, we'll have to grab drinks on our own......
...it is what it is.
We are all in this for our own reasons.
I have found that except for references, the fewer questions asked the better.
to do something for themselves without the collateral damage they would have with the nuclear option of divorce. They're keeping their sanity and their families together at the same time. As long as they're discreet, no one gets hurt.
haven't met the right man. Why not give LA a try?
1. Suzy Favor Hamilton was an Olympic competitor and did escorting. Her husband knew and did not like it.
http://abcnews.go.com/US/olympian-turned-vegas-escort-suzy-favor-hamilton-sex/story?id=33655414 2. I know of another whose husband and the woman got divorced. The woman no longer is in the business and is getting married later this year, roughly 5 years after the divorce. 3. I know of another who had a boyfriend for quite a while. I don't know whether he knew but they broke up. I think is varies from no SO, yes SO that knows, yes SO that doesn't know
agree
Do not think will be able to conciliate both
Date someone ... and been a provider
BUT
I am proud for the ones who can conciliate
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