Have you ever had the experience where you make an appointment to meet with a provider and then she doesn't communicate with you or respond to your communications and then the scheduled appointment time has passed and you still don't receive any communication?
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You have to do your homework to minimize the potential for a no-show. Check reviews of reliable reviewers that seem to share your interests and preferences. Work on your personality so that you don't sound nervous or creepy when you make the first contact. Be prepared to give the information they want for screening, whether it is work information, or references from other providers. If you hesitate for even a few seconds, it is a red-flag for the provider. She may say she will see you, and then have second thoughts because you were not forthcoming or gave her a hard time about the screening information. Some may disagree with me on this point, but I say don't try to negotiate the donation down. They may say okay at first, but in the meantime if they get another client paying full price that wants your time, guess what? Bottom line: If you think the rate is too high, find a girl you can afford.
Because it happens to everyone. Thankfully, it hasn't happened often to me.
Especially in LA. More common than in other places. Often Confirmed times, then reconfirmed. Then a no-show, or a TER message or call to a number that doesn't get answered, saying I can't make it, or some other bullshit. I'd rather think about the nice dates, than the ones who didn't show up
keep some numbers of ladies you know to be reliable nearby.
when a girl flaked on me a while ago, i just called up a few numbers, left a few messages, and made a date for that afternoon with the first girl that called me back. it happens. it's business. move on......you are such a smart ass when it comes to presenting the obvious. I love it! LOL! Ciao!
Happened to me today. A "visiting" provider decided not to visit... The only reason I found out was I sent a couple messages and her assistant finally replied.
Curious to know if any of you gents ever return to the services of a provider who has NCNS'd on you. Things work out? This happened with my ATF recently and I figured if that's going to happen, she's not that interested in providing for me, so move on.
It goes both ways. There are plenty of guys who set up appointments with us and then disappear. Some even send emails for days before the sppointment day and time with elaborate requests of what type of session he would like and then disappears. S