Providers,

Is kissing the norm....Or is not kissing the norm? Or is it possible to have a great session either way?

For me it is the norm. Making out really gets my motor running.  
Plus it is very good for your health!

You're fun to kiss Heather

im also respectful to a gent if i go in for a kiss and he isnt as enthusiastic about it.

It's about intimacy. Some of us choose not to kiss because it's the one thing that turns business personal. But some have no problem with it. We are all different.  
However being a person of your word matters much more...and not playing games and being honest is the most intimate thing one can do....just sayin

Isn't being intimate the ultimate goal for both parties? Being the one seeking the experience wants a fantasy fulfilled and the other wants to deliver that fantasy while enjoying at least some part of the experience as well.

I agree it's almost impossible to avoid especially when a lot of eye contact is involved.

Yes, it is for some. Probably safe to say that it is for many.

But not everyone wants the same thing. It's amazing how you find that out from this (female) side ...

Some guys like to talk and share stories, others are like tape face from Americas got talent.
Some like to see the same lady over and over, others don't understand why some do.
Some guys will leave right after they are finished, others want extended dates to have dinner.

It's such a variety and that's the coolest thing about this.

Learning to read others or just having them be pretty open when they get to you makes it go smoothly. Personally I prefer to just read them.. Even one guy may not want to chit chat one time, but he may the next. No two dates are the same. Thank God. Too much of the same bores me.
xoxo

I am very affectionate, touchy-feely, tactile and I just flat out love physically connecting with others.

That said, kissing is very important to me.  Slow, sensual, seductive, lingering kisses which may turn into flirty, teasing pecks are an incredible turn on.  I enjoy it all!

However, if I'm with someone who smokes, it's difficult for me to enjoy the passion involved with kissing.  Mouthwash, toothpaste, mints and gum do help.  Yet, as a nonsmoker, I can always smell/taste the cigarette odor, and it turns me off to kissing.

Also, when I'm with a man with facial hair, I'm very sensitive to the texture of the facial hair, along with any fragrances that may be lingering in the facial hair.  So, if I smell any cigarette smoke type of aroma in his facial hair, I will be turned off to kissing him.  

It's a shame, because I do SO love eye contact, deep kisses and connecting on such a deep, erotic level.  The smoking thing ruins it for me

For us, kissing is the most intimate part of the process which is what gets the rest of the time to the next level. However, as some have pointed out, there are others (providers and hobbiests) where kissing isn't that important.  

The second question becomes, what is 'good kissing'? Perhaps that is a question for another thread?

I'm with you! I have passed on ladies when I learned they smoke, even outside the session. I am very sensitive to cigarette smoke, so much so that I can usually detect someone smoking from very far away.  

Regarding the facial hair, is that a deal breaker for you? Or just the smoke on facial hair issue? I ask for purely selfish reasons.

 
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OUch!  Sorry for the late response!  I will reply via private mail as well.

No, facial hair is not a deal breaker for me.  And I look forward to hearing more about your purely selfish reasons.  :