being cancelled last minute or NS by providers. I wonder if it is legit or just guys just being a lazy ass to do research themselves or last minute horniness making them post ISO.  

Ladies, isn't it a little difficult for some of you to do a thorough background check on these guys, on such a short notice ISO requests?

How do you ladies do the background checks in a matter of an hour when someone throws out the usual ISO request. I mean to contact a reference and have them get back to you in minutes is mind boggling. But I do see the usual response like "I'm available or I love late nights" from more less the same girls. Are you girls really available or is it that you like to throw your name out there

An hour is more than enough time - white list, p11 okays etc etc  
If someone is an obviously established hobbyist its not difficult at all to verify in minutes but I wouldnt see a newbie at the drop of a hat, I'm always skeptical of newbies  

 

Guy couldn't receive PM's. Had no history and look at who's available....or am I just nuts?

aside from references.  I can vet someone fully & completely in about 15 minutes.  Can't speak for other ladies, but if I throw my hat in the ring it's because I'm available.  I don't have time to comment purely to be an attention whore

There are plenty of other ways to get a guy screened and verified that makes the lady feel comfortable.  I know for me as long as a guy complies with what I need it can be a quick 30 mins at most to get him screened on short notice.  Its all up to the guy and what his credentials are.  

I too only post Im available when I am.  

AJ

Agreed! If they are whitelisted and I can verify them via Facebook/Twitter/Linkdin, ect. I also reach out to past providers via emaiil/text to see if they can verify them. Makes it so much easier when they are established.

Leave the screening of the gents to the ladies

Leave the picking of the ladies to the gents.

We all take risks every day of our lives.

Verified ladies and verified gents can change at any given moment. Nothing a ever a sure thing. Were women, we have intuition.. Sometimes that is way more important to me than a stranger saying, "yeah he's fine.

With this guy in particular I have met him and I have publicly vouched for him twice!

What's with all of the hostility lately? Were changing to shorter and colder days so less sunlight and more clothes on the women getting to you guys???

Not sure why you would mention hostility, but no hostility here.
 
I was just seeing a lot of these posts (more than usual) for a few months on here and other boards and wondered about how providers back ground check with such short notice. I understand if the hobbyist has reviews and references, but there are many with no reviews and possibly no references. Not sure if I want to meet with a provider that takes such chances. Just saying

It was probably directed more at me and my response and probably from the posts that followed yours. Also with the cold nights it seems that her long underwear may have been alittle too tight (messing with her).....lol

I'm always amazed at what hobbyists want to know how escorts run their business. .  

You pick us ladies we screen.If your not a cop or a douchebag then you will get laid and have the time of your life if not then your hand will be your companion for the night.

Hobby Safe!  

Ooxox
KL

Then should we blacklist every guy who took a chance on backpage?

Let's be real.. If you're on your a game, you can get a good character judgement within the first ten minutes of a conversation. Hence that whole, "first impression" thing.. I can always work verify, I can always ask another lady if she would see him again.. Neither of those guarentee my safety. Neither of those guarentee that we will have a good time..

I have had some of the best dates with men who posted last minute ISO and I had the time.. We talked on the phone for ten minutes.. We met at the bar for a cocktail.. Then we just had a no stress night. There are ways to make sure one isn't LE and if anyone walks through a casino floor up to a room with the intention of doing something "bad" they are out of their mind x 2! Every step that we take within the casino is on camera.

Everyone does what it in their comfort zone.

Speaking of, I have been doing this off an on for years and there never was a p411, provider reference, etc.. It was 100% gut. I'm still alive.
Xoxo