Does talking dirty count for anything or does actions speak louder than words?

I love talking VERY naughty on the phone, and definitely during sex.

dirty talk, it helps to set the action.

I love it. An important piece of a great experience for me.

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lets remember the most important sex organ is .... the wallet ....  ooops I meant the brain !    

so dirty talk helps get my brain into the moment and to get lost in the passion.     its more the intent than the actual words ...   a girl passionately whispering   yes yes yes ...  can be far more arousing then someone just saying oh you are so big give it to me baby.

But if it's timed right then it can be a turn on. Ladies have to know their audience. And no need to over do it, us guys know our limitation, so we know. Sometimes less is more...or whispering something in our ear can set us off...

...ugh and these women are like "yes, yes, right there right there!" Like shut up, I don't need to hear fakes and phonies.  Way too obvious, HUGE turn off and I end up wasting so much time looking for more porn where she is real.

When it is real, then it is a HUGE turn on.  From the man and woman.  I can simply listen to dirty talk and get off, which is one reason I love phone sex so much!!

and you are so good at talking dirty!

Agreed.  Im good id it even just sounds real or when the girl is actually looking at you and or smiling, you just has a nice look, and is not just looking away like they are bored.  That happened once where the provider just seemed like she wanted to get out as soon as she entered the room.  Long story short if it sounds genuine im good.