Might want to contact some of the following ladies.  Nikki Avalon, Jade Jones, Jackie Jewel, Roxy, Logan, and maybe Elaina. I've done some exploring with Jade in the past and the last two times I saw her she spanked me.  Jackie Jewel, Logan and Roxy and I have talked about exploring the S&M B&D typs stuff.   Nikki and Elaina have real naughty sides and from I know for sure Nikki is open to it.  Also Meagan who goes by Lady Scorpio and Monet state in there ads the are into this type of stuff.  If none of these ladies are what you are looking for might want to contact ladies you've got your eye on and ask them.