Still have butterflies on setting up my first date. Have to plan a lot for Vegas (previous Vegas trip got cancelled due to work)…or maybe I am thinking to much.
There are few providers and one independent agency (they seem to around here the longest) that I am looking at
As I want to be discreet as it gets, should I just book and call it a date and keep it that. I really do not feel comfortable meeting someone first time and give them a list of fantasies that I like from bbbj/dt etc. It does make it easy but I want communication to be discreet during the booking process first time.
Is it advisable to book a first date and (both explore) and by then the provider knows a whole lot of my fantasies etc and provider feels even more comfortable for the second date?
I know I am thinking way too much here but at the same time I just want to be discreet for both parties.
Yes, you're over-thinking and over-analyzing this. Read the reviews, pick a lady you like, who offers the services you enjoy, and who has many positive reviews, and set a date. Most of us had the same concerns and trepidations as you do when we started. But if you do your homework the hobby can be a lot of fun, especially in Vegas where everything is available.
Thank you for the response. I have no problems on screening, but won’t that be weird to discuss right out the gate. I guess I will have to cross that bridge when I do make the booking for the first date. I really can tell that I am way overthinking this by just reading my own comments here
I don't think it's weird at all. I am not saying write a long epic story but maybe suggest. Or when I meet I always sit and relax and talk for a bit before any action starts and during that time we can talk wants and desires in person too
I definitely think its safe to read reviews to know if your desires will be met especially if multiple reviews skate a similar experience. Then you really don't need to discuss anything with her. I send out an email to my dates after they have screened asking them to answer a few questions for me so i can make the experience exactly what you would want. This gives you a chance to share without it being awkward . I'm not sure if I will be available. The dates that you are looking for however, check my website I might be in town.
I like the review angle - if there are particular reviews that align with your requests then mention that. You can say “loved the reviews from Bob and Joe, that’s the type of experience I’m looking for”. That way you don’t have to feel awkward about talking details but you are also setting expectations and giving her an idea of the session you are looking to experience.
Re: Trust a girl with lots of good reviews I like the review angle - if there are particular reviews that align with your requests then mention that. You can say “loved the reviews from Bob and Joe, that’s the type of experience I’m looking for”. That way you don’t have to feel awkward about talking details but you are also setting expectations and giving her an idea of the session you are looking to experience.
First, I'm not a companion but I can definitely relate to feeling nervous and unsure about discussing "specifics" to someone you haven't met before. Sooooo, if possible, I would suggest booking a dinner date with someone who interests you. By doing so, you can talk to the companion and get a sense of her headspace, etc., before deciding what to discuss and how deep to go. Yes, it will cost more BUT with the right companion, it can be a great way to ease into things.
It doesn't necessarily have to be dinner, specifically, but maybe meet for drinks first or whatever. The point is, have some time to get to know the companion a little first. That might be turn into a fun time of flirtation, adding to the anticipation of what's to happen later.
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