Ok gentleman,

So what exactly catches your eye or puts a lady on your to see list?  
Her pictures?  
Online personality?
Reviews?

& what turns you off?
For example, you may have had a lady in your sights but then seen something that made you change your mind?

be honest and help us all improve....

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

You can tell a lot by looking into someone's eyes.

I hope so, as i am going to.......i am the Female half of a couple and since the choice of who we see is all up to me now, this is what I look for.........

1) Well done photos........Hair and makeup nicely done....nothing crazy, just nice looking.

2) Someone who SMILES in some of the photos.......i am so turned OFF by ladies that do not show some emotion in their photos, if you look like your going to bite my head off, we are NOT going to be comfortable with you.

3)A well laid out web site that is easy to navigate and tells me everything i want to know...if you accept couples...state as much and state the donation for couples dates.

4) Good Reviews, they dont have to be great, just good, no cash and dashes ( why ANYONE would see someone who has done this is BEYOND me) no body odor issues and just a decent attitude.

Those are the things i look for.........hubby is just along for the ride!!!!   LOL  

 

One of the Ladies we have seen does not show her full face, but the pics that she had up DID show her lower face and her smile, and THAT is what got me,well that and her curves.....LOL......  

 I just feel if they look like they are going to come thru the computer and take my head off, what kind of attitude will they have when we are together.
and i know it may sound stupid, but their hair is another thing i look at, if it looks bland and unkempt or stringy, it turns me off......but i am in the beauty industry so i have high standards.......lol

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all Key Notes!

I appreciate your input, I like to know what every thinks, in the long run it helps shape me as a provider!

xoxo,
Ms. Leila Lovely

Yes, photos catch my eye along with a stellar professional reputation.  Once that puts a lady on my radar, the thing most likely to turn me off is a cold, poorly worded email response to my inquiries.  Yes, I know that ladies get a lot of email inquiries.  Timely, well crafted responses that exhibit some "warmth" are a plus...

how that is very unattractive! As it may set off a very uninviting vibe...

I do not show my whole face in my photos because I do have a vanilla job and can't afford for the world to have access to my being here. I do wonder if that limits people choosing me. I know two of the women you have reviewed and one of them I have done several doubles with and is a good personal friend. She just recently started to show part of her face in her newest photos. She's truly beautiful and it didn't seem to hurt her business not to show her face before. I am glad that she's showing more of herself and I am too on a lot of my new pictures. I am just terrified that my business or family will find my site and then I am outed. It is a tough call really to show your face or not to show your face.

Can't say it is one thing, but several things that catch my eye.  Appearance, personality and reviews all come into play.

What turns me off is seeing too many tats and piercings.  I prefer a clean slate, so to speak.

HI, Holly your on our Bucket list!!!   LOL   and even though you dont show your face you show enough that people can still get a feel for you.

i have more issues with those that show their entire face but look like they are pissed off, or not happy about what they are doing, its just such a turn off, i chose not to go with several stunning women with great reviews because of that very reason.    

and your right BOTH of the ladies we saw are AWESOME!!!!!

Why thank you!!! You just made me blush! I think personality is more important than looks. To make sure all parites feel comfortable and click. It makes things so much more intense and way more fun! I totally know what you mean by them looking pissed off or bored! LOL! I think they are trying to be sexy and it isn't working....